Submitted by Matt on Sun, 2025-05-18 01:14
Article here. Excerpt:
'Modern feminist thought has deeply influenced how society perceives and responds to gender-based stereotypes. Feminists have rigorously documented how stereotype threat impacts women and girls—how being reminded of negative gender-based assumptions can lower their performance, limit their confidence, and reduce their opportunities. As a result, enormous institutional energy has been devoted to minimizing stereotype threat for females across education, employment, and media.
Yet in a jarring contradiction, the same feminist voices that crusade against the stereotyping of girls often perpetuate, ignore, or excuse deeply harmful stereotypes about boys and men. From classrooms to courtrooms, from media headlines to college campuses, males are frequently cast in the most unflattering terms imaginable: violent, toxic, emotionally stunted, hypersexual, power-hungry. This glaring double standard is rarely acknowledged—and when it is, it's often waved away as justified.'
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Submitted by Matt on Sat, 2025-05-17 00:27
Read this article and saw the key line rationalizing the whole being-a-hooker thing and thought, "Holy non-sequiturs, Batman!" If we lived in a patriarchy, wouldn't the cashflow go from her to him instead? Excerpt:
'In some ways, the world of sugar dating mirrors the regular world of dating and matchmaking, with lessons in clear boundary-setting and communication. Sugar babies are also hard workers, which is part of the reason Soraya can't see herself dating any time soon.
"Why do I have to put myself through normal dating with emotions that I don't even like, like putting this much energy in and needing to deal with all of these men? I think I should be compensated for it."
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Srushti Upadhyay is a PhD candidate at the University of Buffalo in the US who has interviewed hundreds of sugar babies in order to understand their motivations. She has found that most sugar babies do not date men in their personal lives.
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Submitted by Matt on Fri, 2025-05-16 18:24
Article here. Excerpt:
'Toxic femininity refers to female behaviours that manipulate, control, or harm others while hiding behind cultural norms of softness, vulnerability, or moral superiority. Where toxic masculinity might enforce dominance through aggression or stoicism, toxic femininity tends to weaponise emotion, victimhood, and social influence. It’s often linked to covert forms of narcissism—harder to spot, but just as destructive as the (mostly male) overt form.
This is not about blaming women—it’s about asking why society is afraid to confront negative behaviour when it’s cloaked in femininity.'
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Submitted by Matt on Fri, 2025-05-16 00:43
Article here. Excerpt:
'Dr Fiona Girkin works with the Tasmanian Institute of Law Enforcement Studies teaching police about domestic violence. When she first wrote to me nine months ago to tell me about her work, she thanked me for “being willing to protect men from women who seek to destroy their lives.”
Fiona Girkin is no longer prepared to call herself a feminist. Before her present teaching job, she worked for 20 years in the community services sector alongside many feminists, “It was the most toxic workplace I have ever worked in,” she said, explaining that she had “experienced many women who claimed to be empathic but instead wielded power of a different kind. They would bully and manipulate staff to gain power over in the resources they held including large sums of Government funding for service provision.”'
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Submitted by Matt on Fri, 2025-05-16 00:17
Article here. Excerpt:
'But Hogg has not won over everybody. On the contrary, the DNC is trying to oust him as vice chair. And the reason for that is, frankly, hilarious.
Kalyn Free, a 61-year-old woman with Native American ancestry and a rival candidate, filed a complaint that Hogg's election as vice chair had violated certain DNC bylaws designed to promote gender-based equity. Essentially, she argued that the process was unfair because it was not sufficiently rigged in favor of her as a woman. For now, the DNC is buying it and has taken steps to void Hogg's election. The party may schedule a redo, which would require Hogg to rerun for the vice chair position.'
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Submitted by Mastodon on Thu, 2025-05-15 20:04
Article here. Excerpt:
'Victims of domestic violence are being given a forensic spray that proves if a perpetrator has approached them.
SmartWater, which has its own DNA, will remain on the suspect's skin for up to six weeks and can help lead to convictions. Perpetrators are told that victims are carrying the spray in a bid to deter them from contacting the victim.
Gloucestershire Police has been trialling SmartWater since January, with early feedback suggesting it is working.
Ch Insp Ash Shingler said: "We're working with seven victims. None of the SmartWater has been deployed - that's a good sign because it means the preventative element seems to be working."'
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Submitted by Mastodon on Thu, 2025-05-15 19:56
Article here. Excerpt:
'In many ways, toxic masculinity is a kind of curdled male entitlement. Boys and young men simply have not absorbed the fact that certain privileges are no longer laid out on a platter for them, as they were for their fathers and grandfathers. Girls and women expect to work, which means they can be choosier in dating and marrying. The quotas that openly favored males are gone, although a vestige of that system still survives in the worship of male high school athletes and in the advantage many colleges quietly afford male applicants. There are lots of women doing manly-men things, like excelling in math and science, joining the military, and playing sports. If they weren’t kicked to the sidelines by harassment, rape, and unintended pregnancies, who knows how much girls could accomplish?
Maybe the solution to boys falling behind is for them to act more like girls: Put down the joystick and pick up a book. Do your homework, join the Spanish club, volunteer in the community, and learn to cook (which is actually fun).'
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Submitted by Mastodon on Thu, 2025-05-15 01:57
Article here. Excerpt:
'Harvard University is under federal investigation for allegedly discriminating against white and male applicants in its faculty hiring practices, according to the Washington Free Beacon.
Additionally, on Tuesday, the Trump administration announced plans to cut an additional $450 million in grants to the school over its handling of antisemitism on campus, Reuters reports.
“There is a dark problem on Harvard’s campus, and by prioritizing appeasement over accountability, institutional leaders have forfeited the school’s claim to taxpayer support,” the administration’s antisemitism task force said in a statement.
The task force also accused Harvard of having a “long-standing policy and practice of discriminating on the basis of race.”'
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Submitted by Matt on Tue, 2025-05-13 17:54
Article here. From the NY Times, of all places. Excerpt:
'Boys and young men are struggling. Across their lives — in their educational achievement, mental health and transitions to adulthood — there are warning signs that they are falling behind, even as their female peers surge ahead.
In the United States, researchers say several economic and social changes have combined to change boys’ and men’s trajectories. School has changed in ways that favor girls, and work has changed in ways that favor women. Boys are often seen as troublemakers, and men have heard that masculinity is “toxic.”
Young people themselves tend to agree that girls are now at least equal to — and often doing better than — boys. Many young men say they feel unmoored and undervalued, and parents and adults who work with children are worried about boys. It’s not just a feeling: There’s a wealth of data that shows that boys and young men are stagnating. Below, I’ll explain what some of that data is.'
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Submitted by Matt on Tue, 2025-05-13 01:41
Article here. Didja ever notice... need I even say it? Excerpt:
'A gentleman's club which voted to continue to prohibit women from becoming members has been called "sexist" by a feminist group.
Women can enter the Castle Hill Club in Lincoln only as guests of men who are members.
Paul Watson, secretary at the club, which opened in 1922, said the rule "had always been the same" and "for the rights or wrongs of it, they wanted to leave it that way".
Ellie Henshaw, 19, from the University of Lincoln's Feminist Society, said the decision was "frustrating" and "it's not the default anymore that women should be excluded".'
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Submitted by Mastodon on Sun, 2025-05-11 18:35
Article here. Excerpt:
'At a June ceremony in the scenic Swiss village of Villars, three scientists each collected a huge new prize: 1 million Swiss francs ($1.1 million) to invest in their research to safeguard the planet against various environmental tipping points. The prizes were courtesy of the Frontiers Research Foundation (FRF), the nonprofit parent of the big open-access publisher. Younger women scientists who co-authored winning papers accompanied their colleagues onto the stage, smiling uncomfortably: All the winners of this year’s Frontiers Planet Prize (FPP), with a cash award bigger than the Nobel Prize, were men, just as they were last year.
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Submitted by Mastodon on Sun, 2025-05-11 18:33
Article here. Excerpt:
'Marriage is not for everyone, especially women, according to TikTok user hebatalks. The influencer recently made a video stating that she doesn't believe modern marriages are beneficial for women in today's society.
"I don't really believe in marriage, not in modern day, at least, because I would say that the majority of the time it doesn't work out," she shared in the video. "And even when it doesn't end in divorce, it ends in absolutely hating and resenting each other towards the end of life."
"The reality is that in most marriages, women get the short end of the stick, like women are the ones who have to sacrifice their careers, their health, their well-being, to take care of their husband and the children."
Despite not being married herself, the TikToker said that she has observed "hundreds" of people in unhappy unions.
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Submitted by Mastodon on Sun, 2025-05-11 18:29
Article here. Excerpt:
'A top private school is offering ‘healthy masculinity’ workshops for parents to help them combat toxic online influencers such as Andrew Tate.
The Royal Hospital School (RHS) in Suffolk is running 90 minute sessions to help families talk to their sons about resisting dark messages from the web.
Irfan Latif, headmaster of the 300-year-old institution, said private schools have a ‘responsibility’ to counter misogynistic narratives.
And he advocated promoting positive male role models such as Atticus Finch, the hero of To Kill a Mockingbird, as an ‘alternative’ to harmful figures on social media.
RHS, which charges up to £46,000 a year for boarders and is part of the elite HMC private schools group, was the alma mater of hero explorer Ernest Joyce.
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Mr Latif said: ‘We have not had any particular issues or incidents at RHS, but as educators we have a duty to be proactive.
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Submitted by Matt on Sun, 2025-05-11 17:08
Article here. Replace "White Boy" with "Black Boy" or "Asian Boy". Or "Boy" with "Girl". You get the idea. Excerpt:
'Rep. Jasmine Crockett (D-TX) and DNC Vice Chair Malcolm Kenyatta joined SiriusXM Urban View hosts Clay Cane and Reecie Colbert this week for a town hall discussion about the future of the Democratic Party and, in a promotional clip, she told them the party is eyeing a safe “white boy” candidate for 2028.
During the conversation, Crockett turned to who the Democrats might run in the next presidential election and said she’s already hearing chatter of who donors are rallying behind. “It is, it is this fear that the people within the party, within the primary system, will have about voting for a woman because every time we voted for a woman, we’ve lost,” she began, adding:'
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Submitted by Matt on Sun, 2025-05-11 17:04
Article here. Excerpt:
'For too long, the challenges faced by boys and men in Maryland have been overlooked. From distorted media portrayals to cultural narratives that paint masculinity as a problem, boys and men are often viewed through a lens of suspicion or deficit. In late April, I presented the following 15 ideas to the Governor’s staff—not a list of services or budget items, but focused proposals aimed at improving the public image and cultural understanding of boys and men in our state. These ideas are about restoring balance, affirming the value of boys and men, and challenging the negative stereotypes that continue to shape policy and perception. If we truly cared about them, this is where we would start.'
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