"Why I Cheated" - Women Fess Up

Submitted by WakeUp on Thu, 2008-08-14 17:27

Here is an article about women who cheat and "why". It starts off mentioning crud about men and women cheating for different reasons and how it is usually (but not always) physical reasons for men and emotional reasons for women. They can throw in the "not always" but sometimes it seems like any woman who wants to cheat for sexual or physical reasons could do so and then use ANY of the excuses plotted out in this article.

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When you read these 'reasons', they mostly boil down to one thing: He was hot, and I wanted it.

I'm pretty sure that most of the 'reasons' guys cheat are the same. Sure, there are excuses about having a crap relationship or being needy, but those are just excuses - the main reason people cheat is that they see someone attractive and they want it and go for it. No different for women, and they're finally admitting it; they just like to try and still blame the guy, if they can (He doesn't like the beach - so I shagged the totally hot captain of the boat, that'll teach him!)

The double-standard is amazing. I recently found out that a girl friend of my partners is potentially about to have an affair. Her marriage is good, but not great, and this is a guy she had the massive hots for at school. My partner and the other best friend are both attempting to gently dissuade this lady from the relationship - but have told me they would never dream of telling hubby what's going on - and, I quote, would 'tear me a new one' if I tell him, even though he's kind of a friend of mine.

So, I asked them what they would say if I'd heard he was about to play the field. Their response was "You tell us, we tell her, and he gets what he deserves". No double standard there.... I told them no way in hell I'd tell them now, given how they were behaving. Guess who's no longer invited to dinner at their place..?!

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Submitted by GaryB on Fri, 2008-08-15 04:43

What a bunch of baloney.
This childs poem must be shattered.
Women are just as dispicable as men.
And we need to get the word out there.

I recently heard on a radio show that women are more apt to cheat the more money a guy makes. He makes 70K a year there is a certain probability she'll cheat. He makes $1 Million per year and you can pretty much be certain she's cheatin. This was california (no fault AND community property state) so as he gets wealthier, she gets a bigger payoff upon divorce.

How 'bout them apples?

oregon dad

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Submitted by oregon dad on Fri, 2008-08-15 07:48

Every one of the comments by the cheating females is an illustration of women's absolute narcissism.

Not a word about the consequences on the man.

Well, why would you worry about whether an appliance had feelings?

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Submitted by Roy on Fri, 2008-08-15 17:23

It is so easy to cheat today. Just turn on your computer and browse thru the many websites that cater to married adults. There is a bilingual website that caters to married adults that want to have discreet casual encounters, http://www.scapadasamorosas.com allows you to upload videos, photos and chat all within the comfort of your office, boss button included, or home. If married women are looking for married men this is the place. Whether you just want to chat with someone or go to those discreet casual encounter, where there is a will there is a way rule still applies

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Submitted by scapadasamorosas on Mon, 2008-11-10 16:59