They "chose the bear" ... now "all the men are gone"

The amazing Kait Willet sums up the issue in less than two minutes: "You chose the bear":

Willett: But you can't say, "I would choose a bear." Which is basically saying, "I'm not interested in you at all." And then go, "Why aren't you approaching me?"

"I don't want you, but why aren't you approaching me?"

"I don't want you, but why aren't you approaching me?"

Like, play that out loud. Am I crazy? That doesn't make any sense. If I hear, "I don't want you," I'm not going to approach you. I'm just not... I'm going to find another option that is safe to approach and that I'm interested in. That's what men are doing. Or they're just not approaching at all.

But you can't get mad at them for listening to you.

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Dr. Spier interviews Christine Grace Smith, accidental "men's advocate"

Dr. Spier interviews Christine Grace Smith, "one of the biggest independent YouTube voices that react to the online gender wars. She has uh over a quarter of a million subscribers."

Spier: Asking does Christine consider herself a male advocate?

Smith: I have no idea. I would like to think so, but then also it's hard ... Everything I say is what I think. Everything I say is my opinion, my thoughts. Anything that goes on that comes out my mouth has come from up here. So, I would hate to say my voice is men's voice because I'm not a guy. I have no idea if I'm saying what guys want me to say. I just say what I think. So, it's rewarding when people come back to me and say, "Oh, I agree with you.You're you're saying what I think."

Spier: I think that you can safely say that you're advocating for for men.

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Educating Students on Gender-Based Violence

Link here. Excerpt:

'Catholic Education South Australia is proud to partner with Port Adelaide Football Club to deliver their Power to End Violence Against Women program, an education initiative committed to preventing gender-based violence in schools across the state.

Since 2016, the program has harnessed the power of sport to engage Year 10 students in meaningful conversations about respectful relationships, gender equality and the drivers of gender-based violence.

Developed in partnership with Centacare Catholic Community Services and the South Australian Government, the evidence-informed program complements the Keeping Safe: Child Protection Curriculum taught in schools across the state.

The initiative has since expanded to include a companion program supporting young women, helping them build confidence, recognise healthy relationships and challenge harmful gender stereotypes.'

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Cornell 7: Review of new "Jane Doe" text messages

Attorney Megyn Kelly reviews potentially exonerating text messages exchanged by Jane Doe and the the so-called "Cornell 7" in the days following the infamous event: "What The New Texts Reveal".

This is a short excerpt of Kelly's full show from Oct 1, 2026.

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Female psychopaths

Video here. Description: "This week on Raw & Unfiltered I'm joined by Dr Fiona Girkin, a psychologist based in Australia whose PhD research is on female psychopaths, and who now works with men and organisations dealing with toxic and abusive women."

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Excellent analysis: "Cornell 7 case is consent-based morality failing its own stress test"

The most cogent analysis of the Cornell 7 fiasco I've seen so far, by X/Twitter user "Allie": I was initially outraged when I saw what was going around on social media. And you look into it: There is no case here. ... Ultimately I think what this teaches us is that we all know that deep down that certain moral acts have more complexity than just a simple yes/no. That is why consent based morality is totally unable to deal with this issue. Consent-based morality really has no answer for "yeah she consented, but should the guys have been so opportunistic about it?" ... Or "our bodies are more than just private property. We need to steward them well." You won't hear this from any of the people claiming that consent is the beginning and the end of what is moral. They know that it's wrong, but they think that consent is the only thing that can be wrong, so they're going to try to force it to be a consent issue, when it's not. X post is here.

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Jameela Jamil demands ‘legal castration’ in Cornell 7 case

Article here. Excerpt:

'British actress Jameela Jamil has called for severe punishment for suspects involved in an alleged gang rape at a Cornell University fraternity house.

“I think the likes of the Cornell 7 shouldn't be allowed pen**** anymore. They used them as weapons, so now they have to be confiscated. I think jail time, legal castration and a removal of the shaft seems like the bare minimum,” she wrote on Instagram.

Her remarks came after New York state prosecutors said they have reopened an investigation into an alleged 2024 gang rape at a Cornell University fraternity house, after a civil lawsuit filed this month by the alleged victim sparked renewed outrage.'

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Blunt verdict: Feminists won, now they find out

Blunt verdict by Pearl Davis: "Feminists won, now they find out what a world without men is like." Pearl Davis gives a succinct list of feminism's cruel successes. The event was called "Word War Debate", the topic was modern feminism and gender roles. Short, fantastic clip is available here.

The full two-hour event is recorded here: "Anna Kasparian vs Pearl Davis - WW1 Main Event"

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Cornell alleged rape case

The Cornell students have already been lynched on the internet for the alleged rape of a female student. However, take a look at the District Attorney's letter explaining why no charges were filed. Excerpt:

'Before I discuss the specific facts and reasons that went into this decision, I want to provide the answer in the most basic and understandable form:

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Share this with women friends: "What women don't understand about men": 100 brutal truths

The amazing Kait Willett shares "100 brutal truths men wish women knew about dating, relationships, loneliness, respect, emotional regulation, marriage, modern expectations, and what it actually feels like to be a man in today’s world." See the video essay: "I Asked 10,000 Men What Women Don't Understand" on YouTube. The video is long, but every item in it is concise and stated simply.

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Women don't get it: Male frustration about dating and commitment

This level of succinct insight is so rare. The amazing Kait Willet clarifies "What women aren’t getting about men and male dating frustration": Quote: The problem with women is that women set the standards for how other women operate. This is called interexual competition. And with social media, with Botox, filler, eyelashes, ... women continue to present themselves in ways that do not align with male preference. Men will sleep with women who are attractive. They will engage with women that they are attracted to, but that does not mean that they will commit to the same bucket or tier of women that they lust over. Those are two very different strategies for men. And women don't understand that when men are looking for a long-term partner, they're looking for consistency. They're looking for emotional regulation. They're looking for loyalty. And they're looking for somebody that they can build a life with who has those qualities, the character traits, the morals, all of those things that are aligned with their vision. Men have a vision they want to bring to fruition.

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A sad, but vitally important commentary: "Women punish men who adore them"

It's very easy to overlook this mini video essay on the topic of "Women punish men who adore them," because the message is not new. It contains no surprises or revelations. Nevertheless it's worthwhile to consider the profound sadness of it. The man's even-tempered delivery does not hint at the tragedy. Quote: I only wish women could understand just how badly women punish us for loving them. ... A whole generation of men have noticed that we are only treated well by women we are entirely indifferent towards. How many men are walking around full of regret for that time we were entirely too considerate to that woman we really liked? This is how fcsked up the game has gotten, for real. ... Women at least in our age group have fallen into a state of complete spiritual imbalance.

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Succinctly stated: Domestic violence and divorce stats

Emily King and Savanna Stone deliver a succinct list of the facts on domestic violence and divorce: "Facts!!" Quote: Highest divorce rates? Two women. Lowest divorce rates? Two men. Highest rate at of domestic violence? Two women. ... When you share these statistics, you are automatically labeled a misogynist pickme who hates women...

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Women rated men as 80% below average in attractiveness

The Kurgan claims that "Women are overall quite incapable of seeing pretty much anything objectively, and the more personally it involves them, the less objective they will generally be." And The Kurgan presents evidence, showing that "Women rated men with a dramatically skewed distribution: they rated a full 80% of men as 'below average' in attractiveness."

Full article here, including graphs. Good luck out there in the dating market, guys.

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New laws to criminalise coercive control

Article here. It outlaws Dark Triad personalities. I get it. But 2 things: it won't be used against female Dark Triads and it can easily be abused to go after otherwise innocent men whose only crime was getting involved with a nutter. Excerpt:

'New family violence reforms to create a standalone criminal offence of coercive control have passed the Parliament.

Attorney-General Sonya Kilkenny in her second reading speech said family violence was ‘the number one law and order issue that is destroying lives, harming children across generations and destabilising homes, communities and our broader society’.

She said the Justice Legislation Amendment (Family Violence, Coercive Control, Good Character, Risk Assessment and Other Matters) Bill 2026, was ‘about listening and responding to the voices of victim-survivors,' adding that the reforms would 'prioritise victim-survivor safety, improve the efficiency of justice processes and ensure perpetrators of all forms of interpersonal violence can be held to account'.

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