Glenn Sacks: The Boy Crisis in Education and the Boy Parent Dilemma

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"Modern schools are not suited to boys' personalities and learning styles. This can be seen from the time boys enter school, when many of them are immediately branded as behavior problems. The line of 10 kids who had to gather every day after school in my son's first grade class for their behavior reports--all boys. The names of kids on the side of the chalkboard who misbehaved and would lose recess--all boys. The kids as young as five or six who must be drugged so they will sit still and "behave"--almost all boys.

By any measure, our schools are failing our sons. Boys at all levels are far more likely than girls to be disciplined, suspended, held back, or expelled. By high school the typical boy is a year and a half behind the typical girl in reading and writing, and is less likely to graduate high school, go to college, or graduate college than a typical girl.'"

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Male teachers fight odds, stereotypes

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'The number of male teachers in the United States is at a 40-year low. Out of 3 million teachers, only 25 percent are men, according to the National Center for Education Statistics.

So what’s keeping men out of school?

Brian Nelson founder of MenTeach, a Minneapolis-based organization that seeks to encourage more men to become teachers, cites three reasons:

-- Stereotypes that men aren’t nurturing and can’t take care of little kids.
“Obviously, that’s not true. Men can be great fathers and can be nurturing.”

-- Fear of accusation of abuse.
“There’s a belief that men are going to harm children in school,” Nelson said. “The facts don’t bear this out. A child is more likely to be harmed in their own home than they are in school.

“Some men I’ve talked to who were falsely accused said it really destroys their reputation, even if it’s a false allegation. There’s something that hovers over them. ‘Maybe he did it but just got off.’ That keeps men away. Why would you want to go through that?”

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Six-figure payout for couple whose three children were taken away by social services after false abuse claims

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"A couple who had their children taken away from them for two years by social services after falsely being accused of sexual abuse have been awarded a six-figure compensation payout.

Tim and Gina Williams went through a 'total nightmare' of having their three young children placed in separate foster homes after being wrongly placed under suspicion by social workers.
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They were today awarded an undisclosed sum in an agreed settlement at the High Court in Cardiff.
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The Williams family also received a full written apology from Newport Council.

In his judgment two years ago, Judge Crispin Masterman criticised social services for failing to follow recommended procedures and not carrying out a proper assessment of the family."

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UK: Cameron promises more help for (female) victims of domestic violence

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"David Cameron announced wide-ranging plans to tackle domestic violence today with a pledge that a Tory government would move swiftly to improve protection for women.

Domestic violence increases over Christmas and the New Year, when more alcohol is consumed, and the Conservative leader said that tackling it should be made a greater priority.

The Tories would create 15 more rape crisis centres, funded by £2.6million from the 'victim surcharge' that is imposed on criminals who pay fines."

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Fantasist 'cry rape mother' who wasted 7,000 police hours and cost taxpayers £300,000 is jailed

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'A 'dangerous fantasist' who wasted more than £300,000 and 7,000 hours of police time, was today jailed for four years.

Mother-of-one Michaela Britton, 40, was found guilty of perverting justice after six months of bizarre false allegations, which included tying herself up, slashing herself with a blade and arranging her car to be shot at.

A court today heard how the case wasted more than 7,000 hours and cost taxpayers a massive £316,000.

Among her 'whopping lies', she told police she was being blackmailed over an explicit pornographic video with an anti-terrorist Metropolitan Police officer.'

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Mother allegedly murders son, kills herself over suspected affair

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'ADDIS, LA (WAFB) - Police are investigating the case of a mother killing her seven-year-old son and then took her own life Thursday.

Addis police now say the woman was upset about an alleged affair her husband had with another woman.

West Baton Rouge Parish sheriff's deputies say 34-year-old Lavinia Banks was upset with her husband and fed up with her marriage. She allegedly shot her seven-year old son, Darieyonne, dragged the little boy to the bathroom, and shot him again.

Investigators say she put the little boy's body in a tub full of water and then shot herself in the head. Paramedics were called to the home on Bradley Court in Addis at 5:30pm after the father arrived at the home and saw blood in the hallway.'

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Two Women Kidnap And Rob Man In Marriage Scam

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'KING COUNTY, Wash. -- Two women have been charged for allegedly kidnapped a vulnerable 78-year-old man and taking him to the courthouse, where one of them married him and then tried to withdraw thousands of dollars from his bank account.

Sujinda Yachatta, 56, and Kulany Roeksbutr, 29, have been charged with kidnapping on Tuesday.

Issaquah detectives started an investigation of the Nov. 22 incident after receiving a report from Adult Protective Services concerning the 78-year-old man, who suffers from dementia and lives at an adult family home in Issaquah, court papers said.

The investigation found that the two took the 78-year-old victim from his home without permission, then drove him to Bellevue District Court. A marriage was performed there between the man and Yahatta, who was the man's massage therapist.

Afterward, the two women took the victim to his bank and unsuccessfully attempted to withdraw money from his accounts, which totaled about $28,000, according to court documents.'

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Italy: Absurd Domestic Abuse Statistics

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'According to Italian national statistic agency ISTAT, over seven million women in Italy have suffered from physical or sexual violence at least once, amounting to nearly a quarter of the female population. Sexual violence by itself counts more than five million victims and 961,000 women have experienced some form of physical abuse. A report by Italian women’s advocacy association Casa Internazionale delle Donne claims that every three days in Italy a woman is murdered.'

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Canadian Feminist Lawyer: Abused women 'live in a war zone' every day

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"When women get married they are not signing up for life-threatening careers," Cross said, who likened women who are killed as a result of domestic violence to those who die in battle.

"It is no exaggeration that many women live in a war zone where every day survival becomes a battle, women who spend every day of their lives trying to outwit the enemy, stay alive one more day, protect the children, these women are heroes."

Cross commented on how easily stories in the media about women who are abused or murdered are quickly forgotten and how the media manages to paint a forgiving picture of the abuser.

"They all treat each incident as a singular event, rather than a pattern of violence against women. The abuser is a happy friendly man, a man who walks the dog." She said "this kind of reporting" makes it appear the victims "are somehow responsible for the incident that led to their death."

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UK: Working class white boys lack aspirations

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'Working class white boys are limited by "low horizons" according to a Cabinet Office report.

The report suggested that living in working class areas, especially in former industrial towns and cities, could stop young people, especially white boys, from reaching their potential.

And, poor white boys had the lowest aspirations of all ethnic groups.
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The Cabinet Office report analysed 14,000 young people in England and found that youngsters in certain neighbourhoods were less likely to stay on in full time education after the age of 16.'

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Relatedly: White boys on free meals fall further behind in GCSEs

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UK: West Midlands Police launch advertising campaign to combat domestic violence

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'THIS is the shocking poster that West Midlands Police believe will help to combat domestic violence over the festive season.

The photograph of a woman’s battered face with a man’s bruised hand covering her mouth is part of an advertising campaign by cops to tackle the growing problem.

The Christmas campaign comes amid figures which reveal December is the lowest month for reporting incidents of domestic violence, with women suffering in silence because they want to “hold it together” for the sake of the family.'

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UK: Postcards and beer mats tackle abuse

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'Postcards feature images aimed at making offenders think about the consequences of their actions and the negative impact it has on children.

One postcard features a young boy sitting next to a Christmas tree. The slogan reads – “All I want for Christmas is for daddy to stop hurting mummy.”

Another card features two young boys huddled together on the stairs listening to their mother being abused by their father. The message on the front reads: “Domestic abuse, you can’t hide it from them.”
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The postcards will be distributed in supermarkets, social centres, snooker halls, golf clubs, pubs, leisure centres and will be made available to probation officers and domestic abuse offenders with bail conditions.'

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"Some still don’t see double standard"

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'Remember Debra Lafave, the 25-year-old Florida teacher who had sex with a 14-year-old in the back seat of a car being driven by a 15-year-old? She is the blonde whose lawyer told the court she was too beautiful to go to a prison full of women. So she was sentenced to house arrest.

“People tend to think women can’t really sexually assault because they don’t have the proper anatomy, or they don’t have aggressive tendencies — sexual aggression,” said Susan Strickland, Ph.D., a certified sex offender treatment provider.
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And female sex offenders use more intrusive levels of sexual behaviors than men. They are more likely than men to abuse strangers. And they are less likely than men to acknowledge guilt or to feel sorry or guilty, Strickland said.

Still in our culture most men grow up viewing molestation by an older woman as a conquest: It feels good and sounds good when it’s told to the other guys.'

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'White ribbon’ makes difference in middle-school students’ lives

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'Earlier this year, the Reno/Tahoe chapter of the American Marketing Association contacted Strauss for help with the local White Ribbon Campaign, an international effort raising awareness of domestic violence issues by encouraging people, particularly men, to wear white ribbons during a designated week to show that they condemn domestic violence. In conjunction with the campaign, the chapter also decided to hold a fund-raiser for a local charity, Crisis Call Center, which assists domestic violence victims.

Strauss, along with the University’s American Marketing Association Collegiate Chapter, decided to get involved. The students in the Collegiate Chapter volunteered to make 5,000 ribbons for the campaign. Strauss designed the selling challenge in her class this semester to allow students to earn points for convincing people to wear ribbons, make class presentations, and secure raffle prize donations for the fund-raiser.'

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"Restroom ads will offer help to abused"

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'PONTIAC -- A new project that hopes to save women from domestic violence plans to use a nontraditional venue to deliver its message: bathrooms.

The Women's Commission for Oakland County, a volunteer group, hopes to launch a pilot project in 2009 in Southfield that would post information in women's public and private restrooms on how to seek help in domestic violence situations.

"We picked Southfield because it's so diverse with its residential, commercial, retail and industrial sectors," said Wanda Lohmeier, commission chairwoman. "Bathrooms are a private place, and this is a very private crime we are dealing with. This would give them numbers and groups to help."

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