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Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden
Submitted by fibtastic on Tue, 2019-05-07 17:23
Article here. Excerpt:
'Kylie-Anne Kelly can’t remember the exact moment she became her boyfriend’s one and only, his what would I do without you, but she does remember neglecting her own needs to the point of hospitalization. “I talked him through his aspirations, validated his opinions, and supported his career. I had to be his emotional guru because he was too afraid to admit he had any emotions at all,” recalls the 24-year-old English teacher, who was studying for her PhD at the time.
Kelly’s boyfriend refused to talk to other men or a therapist about his feelings, so he’d often get into “funks,” picking pointless fights when something was bothering him. Eventually, Kelly became his default therapist, soothing his anxieties as he fretted over work or family problems. After three years together, when exhaustion and anxiety landed her in the hospital and her boyfriend claimed he was “too busy” to visit, they broke up.
Kelly’s story, though extreme, is a common example of modern American relationships. Women continue to bear the burden of men’s emotional lives, and why wouldn’t they? For generations, men have been taught to reject traits like gentleness and sensitivity, leaving them without the tools to deal with internalized anger and frustration. Meanwhile, the female savior trope continues to be romanticized on the silver screen (thanks Disney!), making it seem totally normal—even ideal—to find the man within the beast.'
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"What would us dumb guys do with out feminism to tell us how we *really* feel (sad, because we're inferior) and why we *really* feel that way (bcuz we're toxic), and then complain about how unfair it is to them that we *make* them have to do this!"
Harper's Bizarre
Anecdotal evidence should always be vetted carefully. But let's say for argument's sake the article is right and us men are adrift without solid friendships with other fellows. How is that a worse burden on women vs. men? I do believe if a plague like the Black Death struck the Earth and the virus for some reason only attacked men, with a third of the male pop'n struck dead, feminists would claim women were in fact the most victimized by it -- presumably because garbage collection would likely be interrupted.
But I challenge the article's assertion. It's been my experience that men, when they desire intimate emotional rel'ps with fellow men, do seek them out and find ways to get them. If they do not want same, they don't go looking. Plus it may be fair to say the male sex views rel'ps differently and so women may not be able to recognize a significant rel'p between two guys simply b/c it doesn't look like one between two women.
Btw I've never had a guy tell me he wants but has trouble finding male friends he can be solid with. But I have heard women say they have that same problem vis-a-vis fellow women.
I chalk it all up to the fucking Internet.
The bits they left out
This poor man was most likely a victim of domestic violence. It appears that he was systematically isolated from his family and friends by a domineering woman who then gaslighted him into believing he was emotionally dysfunctional and inadequate.
The final act of violence was this narcissistic predator acting as if her controlling and demeaning behaviour was such an imposition on her time and personal space, that she was actually the victim!
No doubt she will be awarded sympathy and support for her virtue signalling and victimhood by tribal feminists at Bizaar.
Ladies, why again aren't you all gay?
Go gay, ladies. If women so outclass men in so many ways, STOP DATING/FUCKING US. It's THAT simple. If you can't stomach the sweet taste of fresh pussy, or the idea of going nipple to nipple with Tiffany makes you want to blow chow, then at least STOP dating men. No more rel'ps with the troublesome male sex. You simply line up a boy-fuck-toy. Locate a guy, preferably with an IQ a good 20 pts below yours, with a really nice cock that just seems to hit your spot, then bang his brains out every couple days.
Simple, easy-peasy.
You just do this: go on Tinder or somesuch and start swiping. Guys that interest you, swipe right. When they message you say simply you are auditioning guys to become your steady sex partner and nothing more. You just want sex, nothing else, not even FWB, just sex.
Most guys'll think you're going to ask them for money or whatnot but others will be all in.
Now give him your cell no. and tell him to text, not call. Tell him to send you a dick pic so you know he's for real and besides you want to see his dick. Also tell him if you require a condom or are into free fire zone play.
Then meet him at a fucking Starbucks. If he seems sane and sort of dumb enough, tell him to take you back to his place so you can audition him. Or your place, whatever.
Good girl. Take that cock.
Now after you have auditioned the big lug, dump his ass. Tell him you'll be in touch and don't inquire about round 2. If you want more you'll tell him.
Now go fuck a few more guys.
Of the guys you fucked, pick one. Make sure to pick one who does NOT text you after you fucked him.
If your pick is a go for round 2, fuck him ASAP. Then if it's still good, keep fucking him about every other day or whatnot. So long as he behaves and doesn't blow up your phone like a douche-bag, you may well have a solid fuck for years to come.
Don't limit yourself though. Monogamy sucks. Fuck other guys, too. But this guy can be your regular.
If things go south for some reason, just start over.
Easy as pie. No therapy thing. Just regular cock. Or go gay.
But for God's sake, stop whining. And if it's so awful, stop having rel'ps with men. Really, it's not that hard.