It Doesn't Matter What Women Want

Sometimes we see a lot of issues in society that has men at disadvantages. I thought I would write an article and post something that could give men some advantages and some good attitudes in the dating arena. I know our current climate has some men avoiding women but it's meant to be fun and light hearted and I think it has some good strong advice. Enjoy. Read Here

It Doesn't Matter
What Women Want

by Dan
Lynch

When it comes to sex and dating all too often we are concerened
what the other sex wants. Admit it, you don't really care what the
other sex wants. You really care what you want.

Be it a roll in the hay, a walk in the park, or a long lasting
journey of love and commitment - even in this hostile-to-marriage
climate we live in.

You already know what you want. If you don't, don't waste your
time going after a woman. Even asking the question, "What do
women want?" is misleading. The constant barrage of propaganda
that women are a mystery is misleading (and vice versa for the female
readers of this website).

Each guy has a girl he admires, each to his own liking. Some
like blondes, some like brunnettes, some like freaky gothic ghoul
looking chicks (who I currently have a crush on right now), and yes
some like red heads.

Don't think of what women want in the plural. You're not after a
plural girl; you're after one. It could be that blonde that works at
the coffee shop, or a waitress, or a struggling actress, perhaps a millionairess who made her fortune independantly.

As a man that is motivated by the beauty of this woman (a
subjective beauty), you have to make contact. You have to say, "I
like you" in so many words. Something that let's her know you're
interested.

Is your ego fragile? Sorry about your luck, but don't hang all
your hopes on one woman: it doesn't give you much of a position to
bargain from. And I gurantee you that the more you ask, the more
opportunities you will have with women. So, if you are reading me
correctly, then you've guessed that I am talking about treating the
relationship like a negotiated agreement.

If she is interested in you, it's all good. But, just like every
negotiator or bargainer, they try to keep their secrets to
themselves. They don't want to reveal their hand, so to speak and neither do you.

If you want to buy a car, do you sit around looking from the
outside wondering what the salesmen will take for that car? Pinning
all day long hoping you can get the car? No, that's pretty fricking
ridiclous isn't it?

You have to go in and talk to the guy to find out if he will take
a lower price, or a price you can deal with. It may be a one of a
kind car, but that's no matter, you're still negotiating and you
can't let that out of the bag unless you really think it will help
your position.

Timing is crucial. It's not always price that get's the car; it's
how badly the salesman wants to sell the car. Women are no different.
She may have a boyfriend or husband. In which case you should
probably drop pursuit. If she's available, it might get interesting.
You're frumpy; she's refined. The more you discuss with her, the more
she lets you know what *she* wants in a man. Because *she* won't be
telling you what all *women* want. She's not interested in them and
neither should you at the moment.

What do men want? I want a girl that's pretty. I want a girl with
nice breasts. I want a girl with nice teeth. But I want a girl that
is fun to be with, that I can talk to. One that I can enjoy my time
with. One that likes sex as much as me (don't worry these women do
exist). Maybe sex isn't all that important and just having someone to
walk the dog with is aces (I'm alergic to dogs but whatever).

I'm going to be brutally honest - that's how I like to write - so
don't get too pissy when I say this, because I believe it's true. I
like to be seen with a hot girl so that I can feel confident about
myself. Guess what, so do women. Many women like status, your status,
because it gives them status. They like to say they date so and so
(and forget the feminist propaganda because women only pay
it lip service when it suits them, then jump the fence when it
doesn't).

That's why they like musicians, it puts them in the spotlight.
That's why they date arrogant egomanic type guys, it gives them a
false pretence, but it still gives them something more than what they
had. It also means they will date you, as soon as you realize your status.

If I asked you what you want, you could very well tell me you want
the moon. Why not go for the stars right? But define it, as in "what
do you want for this car?" It narrows it down. Just like when
you ask a woman what she wants in exchange for her. That's when the
coversation becomes more reasonable. She knows what she's worth, even
if she does have an inflated or deflated ego, it's still going to be
relative to you.

If she tells you she wants the moon, it's likely she doesn't want
to sell to you. That's okay. Don't even let it bother you. Never
commit yourself over one woman so badly that it skews your vision and
rationality. Ask her sister out, her best friend or don't. You have
to remind yourself that you are a good bargain and that they didn't
see the value. You don't even have to be rude about this, because
believe it or not, many a salesmen have chased a potential buyer out
into the parking lot in order to make the deal.

Now combine this with tact, ingenuity, artistic flavour,
experience, politeness, back up alternatives and an all around love for the game, because
women will be telling you what they want just as soon as you ask
them. It's about what you want that matters first.

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