Sassy misandry is good for business – but assault on men is never funny

Article here. Excerpt:

'Does the empowerment of women need to take the form beating up on men? And isn’t it anyway something of self-defeating strategy?

These are the questions often lurking in the back of my mind when I read one of those sassy columns that seem to be a list of insults hurled at men – or MEN! – as a sex. But I usually think twice about voicing them.

Apart from anything else, even though it’s almost never stated, it’s straight men as a sex that are in the crosshairs. Since I’m not terribly straight, and thus not exactly a fully paid up member of the patriarchy, it’s generally wise for me to keep my head, er, down in the (hetero)sex war.

But then I saw this 'Own the Day' TV ad for women's clothing chain Bonmarché, currently airing on UK primetime, which seems to go one sassy step further – suggesting that casual assault on men by women is “bloomin’ awesome!”. And funny.
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I’m not suggesting the ad should be protested or banned – though there would be with enormous kerfuffle if the genders were reversed. But I would suggest that the ad is an indication that sassy misandry, once justified as a ‘necessary corrective’ to the patriarchy and women’s subjugation, is so common these days it has become a corporate cliché.

Which in turn would suggest that it’s no longer quite so necessary – that instead it’s shaded into abuse. And that’s not very empowering. Or ‘bloomin’ awesome’. Whatever that is.'

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The advert isn't as offensive as I expected. It seems to be basically slapstick style violence, with each situation unintentional (i.e. one woman accidentally hits a man in the head with her purse while walking by). It's not as terrible as an ad where a woman purposely hits a man. But still, this ad would never fly with the genders reversed.

I can't help but be a little hopeful after seeing this though. Compared to the Progressive Insurance ad from 15 years ago, things seem to be toning down a lot.

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