UK: Abused Asian men's lives 'living hell'
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'More South Asian men married to British women are becoming the victims of domestic violence, it has been revealed.
The National Men's Advice Line found 9% of calls for help to its service last year were made by men originally from countries such as India, Pakistan and Bangladesh.
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After marrying, Mahmood, who is in his 30s, travelled to visit his wife in the UK for a two-week holiday. He planned to return to Pakistan to finish studying. But hours after stepping off the plane his passport was confiscated by his wife's family and he was told he would not be going back.
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Because of feelings of shame Mahmood decided not to tell his family back in Pakistan.
"My wife would wake me up in the middle of the night and beat me, demanding money, and when I did not have any, my brother-in-laws would come and punch me and beat my back with iron bars. It was a living hell."
For four years he was not allowed to meet his own sister, who lived at a separate address nearby, or even phone her, and the only contact they had was on a handful of occasions. She was also being beaten.
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Mahmood said: "I have two daughters, but have not seen my youngest child who was only born recently. My sister has managed to get custody of her children, but I will have to endure a long legal process to see mine again.
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"I would have been better off living in Pakistan. At least then I would not have been mentally, physically and verbally abused over a period of four long years."
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This is unbelievable. Simply
This is unbelievable. Simply unbelievable.
I simply cannot believe that anything like this has ever happened to women on as large a scale.
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