'No nice guys, please'

in general, have become so feminine, our forefathers would not
recognise them. women run them, like a car, or a dishwasher.
when he doesn't suit her anymore, trade him in. get a new one.
doesn't take her long at all.
doesn't cost HER a dime. men pay for everything in a divorce.
and the new guy might have some $$$$!!!
especially if she is a looker. she knows this up front. he will
figure it out somewhere over a drink some days/weeks/months later.

now you will hear all sorts of men saying they don't "serve" women.

prove it. but they can't, and here are some examples of what i mean.

1. she can take a lover any time she wants (or several), and you can't.
and you really can't stop her.
oh you can file for divorce, but be prepared to lose EVERYTHING
you value in this world. adultery is only a tool for women to use
in a divorce. look at Mel Gibson. do you really think if she was
the one fooling around he would benefit financially? yeah, right.
let her catch you fooling around and see how that goes in court.
"he destroyed our family your honor" (flashes some leg).

2. and once she splits (kicks you out of your own home typically)
w/ "her" kids, and you have pissed her off by catching her, or whatever,
it doesn't take much, you will be lucky to even see "her" kids again.
i speak about this one from experience. she owns sole
control of the most important/valuable people in your life, and she full well knows it.
remember this, today (during divorce) she probably hates you, and this is the BEST
she will EVER feel towards you.

3. and what if these are not your kids? she can take them, invite
her real lover over, and you will most likely pay the bills, for many years to come.
that's gotta hurt. there was a guy in texas this happened to, and he got
slammed all the way to a supreme court, where the cowards refused to hear his plea.
all three little boys were somebody elses. and he STILL pays.

4. if things are not looking good for her because maybe she does drugs,
or has some serious mental problems, all she has to do is claim you hit her,
abused her/kids, or God forbid, claim you molested the children.
by the time your prison nightmare is over (if it EVER is)
you will be little more than a faint memory to "HER" kids.
the lawyers will see that you have no $$ left to try to see them again.
and even if it was proven she lied to gain advantage, NOTHING will
happen to her. this site sees that all the time. hell, she will
probably get $$ for free via v.a.w.a. for doing it. and free lawyers.
if there are kids, you will probably pay her lawyers anyway.
there is no end to your bills. CS, alimony, palimony, etc.
you must support this princess "in the manner to which she has become accustomed",
thanks to you. the very wording sounds like something out of a
story about princesses, kings and queens. in america.

these are just a few of the many many ways the system is stacked against men.
men let it happen. they turned their feminine cheeks and bent over
when told, listened to women as they shamed men who spoke up.
the courts dropped the ball, for the $$$$. justice is anything BUT blind.
and every day that americans don't get
joint absolute custody of the children in divorce, is just another day
the feminized men lose even more ground, if that's possible.

in summary, women act like they do, and treat men like they do,
because they can. they know every bit of this stuff above and the many
more ways to screw you over, when they are standing
up there swearing before God to love, honor, whatever.
and men are NOT waking up to these potential disasters. yes dear?

It could be that women don't like nice guys because they feel bad about using them and treating them like crap. If they were with a guy who wasn't nice, they could more easily rationalize acting like a bitch towards him. Not that I'm saying all women are bitches or treat men like crap, but I think the women that do share this same mentality.

Actually women don't really like a challenge, as it says in the article. If this were true, the law would hold them as accountable for their actions as they would men.

Evan AKA X-TRNL
Real Men Don't Take Abuse!

I hear this all the time. I don't know if there is any truth to girls wanting 'bad boys' or not. The only girls that I know that might like 'bad boys' are slutty themselves.

I think what comes around goes around. If a guy or girl wants to fool around with 'slutty girls' or bad boys' and then think they will settle down with some one nice when they are older...will soon realize that all the nice people are taken and only 'bad boys' or slutty girls are left.

I am in my mid twenties and that is what I am finding. All of my girl friends that have high morals and solid family values are already married or currently engaged to really nice guys.

Gee, I hope that doesn't that put me in the category of 'slutty girl'. I guess there are some exceptions. But the older you get the more 'history' single people tend to have, and the harder you have to look for some one that meets your standards.

I would never date a guy that had a 'bad boy' reputation because that means he has slept around, and that's a turn off for me. I tend to like classy guys and guys that are particular about who they have a physical relationship with.

BTW, the quote in the article "women marry gentlemen but fool around with rougues" I think can be turned around to be true about either gender: "Men fool around with whores but marry nice girls".