Reality Check Blog: 'To End the Campus Rape Epidemic, Let Go of Secrecy'

Article here. Excerpt:

'One of the most disturbing things about the culture of secrecy and total lack of transparency uncovered by the CPI last week is that such a veiled system makes progress really hard to measure. Campus rape won't end until we attack rape culture at its roots, but there are ways to curb the problem, such as innovative, mandatory education programs, transparent channels for counseling and reporting and student-led initiatives like Men Against Rape that target fraternities and other student groups, or Take Back the Night events which brings the issue into the open.

Another method that some schools have embraced and more should is to separate rape prevention programming from campus sex ed programs, thereby clearly delineating the difference between healthy sex between consenting parties and rape, rather than contributing to the boundary-blurring that plagues the issue. A feminist-minded way of doing this is promoting a model of "enthusiastic consent" as posited in the book Yes Means Yes (now being used for sex ed at Colgate University!); the idea that consent is more than a lack of no, but a wholehearted yes.'

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"A feminist-minded way of doing this is promoting a model of "enthusiastic consent" as posited in the book Yes Means Yes (now being used for sex ed at Colgate University!); the idea that consent is more than a lack of no, but a wholehearted yes."

Does she have to rip her clothes off and scream "YES YES OH GOD YES F*CK ME, WINSTON, F*CK ME NOW!!! ARRRRGGGHHH!!!!" so everyone in the dorm can hear and thus be a witness (of sorts) to attest that indeed, should there be any doubt, it was an "enthusiastic consensual sexual act"? Or does it make more sense to use a notarized consent form and three attorney's signatures before the kids can even swap spit and dry-hump, much less f-ck???

Sorry guys, I just can't bear it. I cannot tell you how glad I am I have over 20 years between me and college. You know, my brother went to Colgate. I can just imagine what he'd think if he knew this sort of thing were going on. I guess I'll find out soon enough when I tell him.

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