Submitted by el cid on Fri, 2013-02-08 13:07
Story here. Excerpt:
'Two male rape survivors who appear in "The Invisible War," an Oscar-nominated documentary about military sexual assaults, are criticizing the movie's brief focus on male victims as an ironic snub — and, in a fiery diatribe, one of the film's characters says the director "should be ashamed and embarrassed."
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Submitted by GaryB on Fri, 2013-02-08 08:32
It's good to see that this stuff happens to high profile men too, and that it gets at least some attention. Quote:
'ABC News presenter Jeremy Fernandez has described the moment he was kicked off a Sydney bus after enduring verbal racial taunts earlier this morning.
After boarding a State Transit bus to drop his daughter off at preschool, Fernandez was the victim of racist abuse from a woman in her mid-30s with two young children of her own.
He said he endured 15 minutes of racial abuse - where the woman claimed she would drag Mr Fernandez off the bus if he didn't get off. But then it was the bus driver who eventually kicked Mr Fernandez off, claiming it was his fault for the altercation.'
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Submitted by Mastodon on Fri, 2013-02-08 02:13
Article here. Excerpt:
'Tawana Brawley might finally have become a victim.
Not of former Dutchess County prosecutor Steve Pagones — whom she falsely accused of rape and who is now looking to collect on a defamation judgment he won against her. But of Al Sharpton and lawyers Alton Maddox and C. Vernon Mason, who used her for their own purposes and then left her hanging.
Brawley was a teen who told a lie, reportedly because she feared her abusive stepfather. But Sharpton, Maddox and Mason were adults. They ran with her story and made wild charges against Pagones and others, inflaming racial tensions for personal gain. Pagones, who lost his career and marriage over it, sued all four — and won.'
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Submitted by Mastodon on Thu, 2013-02-07 20:49
Article here. Excerpt:
'A bill to give equal custody rights to unwed fathers may be built on good intentions, but the potential for negative unintended consequences is unacceptably high. There are better ways to pursue the goal.
Prime sponsor Sen. Rick Murphy describes the bill, SB 1202, as an effort to address inequity.
“Absentee mothers can come back into the picture after years of absence, disrupt their children from a stable home with their father, and still have all the legal rights and be presumed by law to be the best custodian of the child,” Republican Murphy said by e-mail.
Ironically, that is a mirror image of the scenario envisioned by opponents of this bill. They say it will enable fathers to disrupt the lives of children, including those for whom they previously expressed no interest.
What’s more, advocates for victims of domestic violence say giving a man custody rights based solely on paternity could provide an abusive man with powerful legal leverage after a woman has fled a violent situation.'
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Submitted by Mastodon on Thu, 2013-02-07 20:47
Article here. Excerpt:
'True, one of the opponents of the bill, Democratic Sen. Karen Keiser, has been saying that girls are at risk of abuse if forced to tell parents about issues related to their sexuality. "There have been documented cases where young women have been abused, thrown out of the house and in rare cases actually killed," she reiterates to SW. But she says she's never put the blame specifically on dads.
"This is crazy," she says after hearing Backholm's rhetoric. "Young women have also been thrown out of the house by their mothers. It's not a gender issue."
Backholm's way of framing the argument might, however, be a clever way of tapping into the dads' rights movement, which has a host of grievances that spark ardent and bitter feelings, including the way fathers are treated in family court.'
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Submitted by Matt on Thu, 2013-02-07 18:16
Story here. Excerpt:
'(CBS) EUGENE, Ore. - An Oregon man is suing the U.S. Government and a female IRS agent he alleges pressured him into sex, by threatening a tax penalty.
Vincent Burroughs, of Fall Creek, Ore., says the harassing relationship began in August of 2011 when Dora Abrahamson, an agent with the Internal Revenue Service, called him and said he would be audited, CBS affiliate KVAL reports.
Burroughs says he didn't know Abrahamson, and that he hadn't met her before those calls - nor had he heard that he was being audited by the IRS.
"She was sending me texts that she wanted to come out, give me massages because she needed to help me relax," Burroughs said in a phone interview with KVAL News.
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The lawsuit states: "She said that she could impose no penalty, or a 40% penalty, and that if he would give her what she wanted, she would give him what she needed."
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Submitted by Matt on Thu, 2013-02-07 18:11
Story here. Excerpt:
'A nanny hired by one Staten Island family ended up behind bars after the parents say they caught her abusing their infant.
Shocking video shows Mamura Nasirova, 52, repeatedly slapping a 5-month-old baby she was hired to take care of, police said.
Officials say Nasirova repeatedly hit the baby girl on her face and legs with an open hand and shook her, leaving the infant crying and red.
The video was recorded by a so-called "nanny cam" hidden inside a carbon monoxide detector inside the family's Staten Island home. When her parents saw what was going on, they ran home and called police.
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When cops showed up to arrest Nasirova a week later, they say she refused to be handcuffed.
Nasirova is facing charges of endangering the welfare of a child and resisting arrest. She is due back in court Friday February 8.'
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Submitted by Matt on Thu, 2013-02-07 15:31
Article here. Excerpt:
'An end to permanent alimony certainly appears more plausible when it makes headlines in the Personal Finance section of U.S. News: Money. Geoff Williams, who has authored several articles about the finances of divorce, addresses how this is a holdover from a time when women were taken care of by their husbands.
In “Taking the ‘Permanent’ Out of Permanent Alimony” he states, “Permanent alimony was created in the days when women didn't go to college and rarely had careers, instead tending to the kids and household. Then it was sorely needed. Now, opponents argue, those reasons for its being are long past.”'
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Submitted by Matt on Thu, 2013-02-07 15:25
The Senate is expected to vote on VAWA today. Let's use these last moments to express our views to our lawmakers.
http://www.saveservices.org/pvra/vawa-reform-principles
You can also find your senators here.
If you don't call, they'll never know what you want.
Teri Stoddard, Program Director
Stop Abusive and Violent Environments
www.saveservices.org
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Submitted by Mastodon on Thu, 2013-02-07 07:45
Article here. Excerpt:
'The Chief Constable of the new Scottish single police force has suggested that men who are convicted of domestic violence while drunk should be banned from drinking alcohol.
I wondered what Lib Dem Voice readers thought of this proposal. In England, Drinking Banning Orders have been around for 7 years but the guidance on their use suggests that they may not be appropriate if an individual is subject to domestic violence proceedings.
I’d be interested to see if anyone has any knowledge of how these orders work in practice, and whether they are effective in reducing offending. Are they too illiberal, or are they liberating for potential victims?'
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Submitted by Minuteman on Thu, 2013-02-07 06:17
Link here. Excerpt:
'February 6th marks the tenth observance of the International Day of Zero Tolerance to Female Genital Mutilation/Cutting (FGM/C), an internationally recognized day to foster awareness of the devastating effects of FGM/C and renew the call for the abandonment of this harmful traditional practice. FGM/C is a practice that ranges from nicking to total removal of the external female genitalia. Some 140 million women around the world have undergone this brutal procedure and three million girls are at risk every year.
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Submitted by Matt on Thu, 2013-02-07 04:32
Article here. Excerpt:
'Two months ago I wrote an article for AVfM titled, ‘Fighting feminism – let’s get practical’. It was a call to MRAs to start fighting the manifestations of feminism on an issue-by-issue basis:
http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/activism/fighting-feminism-lets-get-practical/
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...What can you do when the democratic process fails, when politicians fail to adjust policies in line with compelling evidence? With the question framed in that way, the answer was blindingly obvious. You form a political party and fight marginal seats, winning enough votes so that some politicians lose their comfortable livelihoods. Then the main political parties may start to compete for men’s votes, by promising to end anti-male legislation and initiatives.
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Submitted by EqualMeansEqual on Thu, 2013-02-07 01:45
Under regulations recently set forth by the Obama administration under the Affordable Care Act, all insurance plans are required to cover domestic abuse screening and counseling services as preventive care, meaning that insurance must pay in full with no copays or deductibles. However, these regulations apply exclusively to women, meaning that male victims that have endured the exact same thing may be expected to pay out of pocket for access to these services. A petition has been started on Change.org calling on the administration to revise these discriminatory regulations so that these services will be covered for all victims of domestic abuse, regardless of gender. It can be accessed here. I hope that you will consider signing and sharing it with any friends or family who you feel may be supportive.
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Submitted by Matt on Wed, 2013-02-06 15:43
Story here. Excerpt:
'A 10-year-old Alexandria boy was arrested after police said he brought a toy handgun to school on Tuesday, a day after he showed it to others on a school bus. The boy, a fifth-grader at Douglas MacArthur Elementary School whose name is not being released, was charged as a juvenile with brandishing a weapon, police said.
He was also suspended from school, and Alexandria City Public Schools Superintendent Morton Sherman said further action is being considered, including expulsion.
On Monday, the boy showed the plastic gun to at least one other student during a bus ride home from the school. The 10-year-old did not point it at anyone or threaten to shoot it, but he neglected to mention that the weapon was fake, said Alexandria police spokeswoman Ashley Hildebrandt.'
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Submitted by Minuteman on Wed, 2013-02-06 08:03
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'Gonzalez said she took a chance because she was "vulnerable and wanted to be in love" and has now revealed she is eight-months pregnant with Wilson's child.
Court papers allege the pair were in a relationship from March to August last year.
The relationship ended in August and Gonzalez became involved with another inmate.
The public servant has reportedly voiced concerns regarding what she will tell her child about how he was conceived.
"I know that for me as a parent, how am I going to explain this to this little boy? ... Mommy got wrapped up ... And then the opposite end is with a person who took lives. So how do you explain that?," Gonzalez said in a recorded conversation with the inmate she became involved with after Wilson.'
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