India: Court rules a divorced mother’s custody of child can never be illegal

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'New Delhi - A divorce cannot take away a mother’s right to be with her child and the custody cannot be called unlawful, a city court has held while quashing a man’s petition alleging that his estranged wife had illegally detained his son.

Additional Chief Metropolitan Magistrate (ACMM) Rakesh K Sharma said that keeping the child is a mother’s “natural right”, and a court requires extraordinary reasons to disturb the guardianship. “The custody of a minor child by his mother, by any stretch of imagination, would not constitute any offence,” the ACMM said in his order on Thursday.

The court also held that a mother could not be called an offender even if she forcibly detains the child. In the present case, the man had demanded that a search warrant be issued against his estranged wife.'

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SOS for a new feminism: How Obama's being hailed as a new champion for women

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'For the first time in several decades, the F word is back on the agenda. No, I don't mean that we are all debating the merits of yet another misogynistic chef, but that feminism is taking centre stage.
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It is all about the boys,' she told me. 'They come first. And the boys don't want to know you if you don't sleep with them. They were all raised on porn, they all read lads' mags, they think that is what we should be like. We dumb ourselves down for them.
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I spoke to a 26-year-old male friend yesterday, and asked if he even knows where he stands. 'I find women competitive with each other, confrontational, liberated sexually, oh my goodness yes, but they also demand we pay for everything. We are not supposed to object to anything they do, how they dress, how much they drink. It's confusing.'

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39-year-old mother accused of having sex with teen boys

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'HAMILTON — A 39-year-old woman is facing two charges for allegedly having sex with two teenage boys over the past two years.

Tracy Conley, who lists addresses on Trenton-Franklin Road in Madison Twp. and Weeping Willow Drive in St. Clair Twp. in court documents, was indicted last month on two counts of unlawful sexual conduct with a minor, a third-degree felony.

The charges allege that Conley engaged in a sex act with a boy between the ages of 13 and 16 on Dec. 31, 2007, and between May 15 and May 31, 2008. Assistant Butler County Prosecutor Greg Stephens said there are two victims.'

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Gender gap widens for colleges as women extend lead

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'Despite increasing concern, the gap has widened steadily this decade. By 2007, according to the National Center for Education Statistics, a third of women ages 25 to 29 had bachelor's degrees, the highest proportion ever. For men, it was just over one-quarter, lower than it was in 2000.

Educators have not been able to agree on what causes this disparity. Guidance counselors who work with high school seniors have different theories, and many observe that boys sometimes take a lackadaisical approach to future plans.
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The trend is playing out in the gender ratios at many colleges. To maintain a balance between the sexes, some schools have worked hard to attract young men.

Seton Hill University in Greensburg is about two-thirds female. Though the former women's college began admitting men in 2001 and added a football team in 2004 to attract male students, it has yet to reach a gender balance.'

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Woman Shoots Boyfriend Because He Wouldn't Let Her Sleep

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'A Monroe woman, who said she was angry because her boyfriend wouldn't let her sleep, shot him with a small-caliber handgun, according to an arrest affidavit.

Charged with aggravated battery was Roshonda Anding, 21, of 3002 Burg Jones Lane. She remained in Ouachita Correctional Center on Saturday afternoon with no bond set.
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"Anding was cooperative," the affidavit said, and "only stated that she shot (the victim) because he was bothering her and wouldn't let her sleep."'

Reader Comment:

"I am pretty sure this makes me evil, but this story made me laugh so hard. I mean, doubled over laughing. The whole idea of her shooting him to get some sleep. Hysterical! Oh man, I think my express ticket to hell just arrived."

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Terence Blacker: Gender wars and unspoken words

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'When it comes to the age-old question of men and women, their relative strengths and weaknesses, a strange species of madness seems to have recently taken hold. Everywhere, not only in the media but also in academic and political life, the complexities of gender have been ironed out, reduced to a series of reassuring but stupid assumptions. The female principle is essentially generous and virtuous; masculinity is its opposite: selfish, untrustworthy.
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The revered and apparently intelligent actress Meryl Streep has this week been speculating on why the film Mamma Mia! has become the highest-grossing release of all time in the UK. Me too: trapped on an aeroplane recently, I endured 30 minutes of the film's mindless feel-good guff before switching over to Hellboy II. It is popular, I concluded, for the same reason that Busby Berkeley films did well during the Depression: it offers fluffy, escapist optimism for hard times.

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Australia: Surrogates told to pay support

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'THE Australian Government is demanding a New Zealand surrogate mother pay child support for the baby she had for two gay Queensland men, amid accusations she abandoned it.

Her case has raised fears of financial clawbacks for other New Zealand surrogates, including an Auckland woman who is eight-months pregnant with a son to another gay Australian couple.

"She's told the couple they have to sort it out as there's no way she's paying," said the second surrogate, who declined to be named.
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Australian funding agencies Centrelink and the Child Support Agency confirmed they were likely to seek maintenance payments from a birth mother in New Zealand if the Australian birth father claimed benefits as a sole parent caring for their baby.'

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Unemployment blues: Men tend to say it ain't so

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"Seeking treatment for depression is still taboo for men, while increasing unemployment places more men at risk. Illinois' unemployment rate climbed to 7.3 percent as the national unemployment rate dropped to 6.7 percent in late last year.

And the unemployment rate for men has been higher than women in Illinois since 2005. The result is an increasing number of disenfranchised men in the Chicago area falling into depression.
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Can unemployment be connected to depression in men?

Absolutely. Men in our culture have been socialized to view their jobs as very important and, often, their self-definition is all wrapped up in work. If they’re out of a job, it’s a major blow to their self-esteem. Often that results in depression. There’s really no quick fix to the economic problems we face, and all of that affects human beings in a profound way."

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News Flash: Arizona State Attorney General lets Women Use The Better Grill At Country Club

Story here. Call this a hard earned victory for all women facing kitchen amenity discrimination. I wonder if Congress with pass the Equal Grill Act? Excerpt:

"State Attorney General Terry Goddard said Wednesday that his discrimination lawsuit against the club had been settled out of court. The settlement requires the club to allow women into its men's grill and men into its women's grill when both re- open next month after renovations.

The club issued a statement saying that the settlement doesn't mean it had agreed with the accusations and that it didn't accept liability in the dispute. But the club said it agreed to let both grills be open to all members and guests. Goddard said the men's grill has better amenities and is seen as a prime spot for business deals and networking.

The case was prompted by a complaint to the club's board by Logan and Barbara Van Sittert. The lawsuit says the couple, who declined to comment Wednesday, wrote to the board president asking that women be allowed in the men's grill."

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The answer is simple: Don't hire a woman

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'"The Paycheck Fairness Act would address this reality [pay discrepancy] through a number of needed reforms," notes Hillary. "The Act would create a training program to help women strengthen their negotiation skills; enforce equal pay laws for federal contractors; and require the Department of Labor to work with employers to eliminate pay disparities by enhancing outreach and training efforts.

Interesting how it's automatically assumed any pay discrepancies are due to evil men discriminating against women.
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I've already been told by at least three small businesses that they won't hire a woman because it's too risky. I agree. Look at a woman wrong and you're accused of sexual harassment. Open a door for her and you'll get hassled into enrolling in a "sensitivity" course. Complain when she needs yet another day off to take care of her sick kid, and you're accused of gender discrimination. It sure is a whole lot easier to hire a man!

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Boston.com: "Can't buy me love"

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"Some singles have taken themselves out of the running for love during this recession. Unlike couples and families, who may interact with each other more when they're housebound, the single-and-jobless are often isolated by cutting their entertainment budget. When there's no money to date, it means suffering through a drought that's both professional and personal.

According to job counselors, it's a problem that primarily affects heterosexual men. The US Labor Department has reported more men out of work, while the number of employed women continues to rise. Even though the stigma of unemployment has diminished during these bleak times, traditional gender roles remain: Men are supposed to pursue dates and offer to pay."

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UK: Men are more than twice as likely as women to go bust

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'Men are two and a half times more likely to file for bankruptcy than women, possibly because they are less efficient at running their finances, according to research by Tenon Recovery. More than 430 of the 600 bankruptcies handled by Tenon last year involved men. The firm said anecdotal evidence suggested women were less likely to fall into insolvency because they were more efficient at tasks such as keeping financial records and collecting payments.

"Women's strong organisational skills could go some way to explaining why they are better at managing their finances than men,' said Carl Jackson, head of Tenon Recovery.

More women are losing their jobs in this recession than in previous slumps. But research by NatWest and Everywoman has found that female business owners are more likely to take a structured approach to running a firm, with 55% following a business plan, compared with only 34% of men. They are also more willing to take advice. Both of these traits could help female businesses survive the crunch.'

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UK: Women’s last secret: money scares them

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'When Hilary Black ditched her boyfriend two years ago she didn’t exactly expect sympathy – she was, after all, breaking his heart – but she assumed her girlfriends would rally round, assuring her she’d done the right thing.

Instead her decision was met with gasps of surprise and barely disguised disapproval. The boyfriend concerned was rich, you see. Very rich. “One of my friends actually said, ‘Are you crazy? This guy could take care of you for life!’” says Black.

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Boys will be boys at the bookstore

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'Arriving in stores this month are "The Boys' Book of Survival: How to Survive Anything, Anywhere" and "The Girls' Book of Glamour: A Guide to Being a Goddess."

This newfound embrace of "la difference," as the French say, can be traced to the astonishing international success of 2006's "The Dangerous Book for Boys" by British authors Conn and Hal Iggulden.

The book - which instructs boys in manly pursuits such as building treehouses, skipping stones and learning Latin - was catnip for conservative critics with ears for Christina Hoff Sommers' argument in "The War Against Boys: How Misguided Feminism Is Harming Our Young Men" that modern American educational theory is inordinately troubled by blossoming masculinity, with the practical consequence that boys are disadvantaged in classrooms.'

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Philippines: Feminism blamed for ‘erosion of manhood’

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'MANILA, Philippines—A high-ranking Vatican official currently in Manila has warned of the erosion of manhood and the “crisis in fatherhood” that have resulted in millions of children worldwide without a father or enjoying emotionally healthy relations with one.

German Cardinal Paul Josef Cordes, president of the Pontifical Council “Cor Unum,” the Vatican dicastery (or administrative agency) on charity, aid and relief, blamed “gender mainstreaming” and “radical feminism” for attacking biological manhood and insisting that “sexual roles are learned.”

He said men are demeaned and what is held up as an ideal is a man who is feminized and emasculated, one who, in a European study, is held up to be “a sweeter man.”
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Cordes said statistics around the world “confirm that today the self-understanding of manhood and especially fatherhood is in crisis.”
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Some newspapers hailed this as ‘the end of fatherhood.’”

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