'Crisis In Masculinity' Leads To Eating Disorders In Straight Men

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'Young heterosexual men are falling prey to eating disorders such as anorexia and bulimia just as much as women and gay men - and their numbers are increasing, a leading specialist has warned.
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To be a young man is our society is a difficult thing. What you do and who you are is less straightforward. Women were challenged decades ago to consider which of the many different social roles they adopted. Now men are having to respond to the choices that society gives them.

"Suddenly younger straight men have similar pressures to gay men and women. There is a crisis of masculinity in our society. They are given all these roles and to simply decide to manipulate your body is a nice easy solution to all the complexities of life."'

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'Women abusing men'

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'Very few men call police on these women, but when they do many women get charged with domestic violence and battery. Terry Owen with the Port St. Lucie Police Department, says, "We have always seen the men as the abusers, but that is not the case now." Owen says in April, 28 woman were arrested for domestic violence. Owen says, "Woman are just more aggressive than they used to be, they are not laid back or passive." She says that coupled with the poor economy and the higher use of alcohol and drugs is pushing women over the edge. This is another 911 call, "Me and my boyfriend just got in to it and I am trying to get my stuff to leave and he won't let me get my stuff and I don't have time to argue with him." That was Lakeshia Tumblin. She was just arrested for throwing a knife at her boyfriend. The crimes continue and rarely do men report it..."

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Boys 2 Men Conference will try to 'stop the bleeding'

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'In a gang and want to get out? Hooked on drugs? Mean to your parents? Afraid you have AIDS? Barred from visiting your child?

"You need to come to the Boys 2 Men Conference," said the Rev. Willie D. Brown, host and producer of the Saturday event designed to help young males face their problems and find answers. "We have a generation of young men on life support. We're coming in with the shocking paddles to give them their lives back."

Brown expects 300 to 500 young men, ages 12 and up, to attend. How does he plan to get them?
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The conference will offer counseling, confidential AIDS testing, and prevention and intervention in areas from drugs to child custody.
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"We'll find out each guy's issues. We'll break them to different groups. We'll show them how other people have handled their problems."'

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University reinstates women's team and drops men's after court action

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'Four days after a federal judge issued a temporary injunction that barred Quinnipiac University from cutting the women's volleyball team, the school changed course Tuesday and reinstated the program.

But while keeping the program in the face of a Title IX lawsuit, Quinnipiac said that it was cutting the men's indoor track team. The school had previously eliminated men's outdoor track and golf because of budgetary concerns.
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Andrew Schneider, the ACLU's executive director, said testimony showed that Quinnipiac could have achieved its budget cuts without eliminating programs, so he was critical of the decision to cut men's indoor track.

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NYC mayor seeks to soften image at women's event

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'NEW YORK (AP) — Mayor Michael Bloomberg, who's sometimes perceived as cold and unfriendly, sought to warm up his image at an event with women voters on Monday.
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The Bloomberg campaign, which just released new television ads featuring testimonials from prominent women supporters focusing on issues such as reproductive health access, domestic abuse and schools, insisted the event was not invite-only. Invited people were allowed to bring guests, spokeswoman Jill Hazelbaker said.'

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UK: 'Women never forget, Gordon. So watch out'

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'A woman scorned is a dangerous thing. Hell hath no fury to match her menace.What hope for Gordon escaping the poisoned darts shot by women who have abandoned him? None whatsoever.

A woman overlooked, scorned and set adrift is a loose canon fully loaded and fizzing. At some stage she’ll go off with an almighty bang. Then she’ll reload and fire again.

Gordon Brown should be digging an underground shelter right now. He’s surrounded by dangerous women – and they all have his soft, tender bits in their sights. They want his career and his reputation. And boy, are they on course to claim them.
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Worse still, they are armed to the teeth with the kind of secrets that can cause the most pain. As any woman knows, the definition of a secret is something that should be kept closely confidential until it becomes irresistibly useful. These ladies have oodles of them.

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Murder, womb-cutting not so uncommon for women who’ll stop at nothing

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'While members of the psychiatric community were quick to point out that each case is different, they were just as fast in identifying a common thread: “a desperate longing for a child combined with either psychopathic tendencies or a psychotic break, which creates a delusional belief that an infant must be claimed, at any cost, to be ‘returned’ to its ‘rightful’ mother.

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Canada: Mixed reviews for women-only hotel floors

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Woman booked with filing false reports

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'JENNINGS, La. (AP) - A Lake Arthur woman has been booked with filing false police reports and theft after she admitted to making up separate rape and armed robbery claims.
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Cassidy said the charges resulted from Thibodeaux alleged false complaint of a rape at the Veterans of Foreign Wars in Jennings last November and an alleged false complaint of armed robbery at the Dollar General store in Lake Arthur in January.'

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'We are the girls ...?'

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'The University of Florida might want to rename its traditional game-day pep song "We Are the Girls From Old Florida."

Since 1998, female students have outnumbered males on the UF campus. Next year's incoming freshman class is expected to be 60 percent female - the highest level ever.

Nationally, women have long outnumbered men in college classrooms. In fact, UF is actually behind the trend and ranks last among state universities in the percentage of female students.
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The growing gender imbalance is "not a healthy situation," he said. He links the trend to a growing incarceration rate in the U.S. and an increasing number of men committing suicide.

He calls for changing the way in which boys are educated. Boys learn through a more active, hands-on learning style than girls, he said. Mischief-making boys are treated as criminals or sent to special education classes, he said.

"Boys aren't allowed to be boys today," he said. "They're treated as defective girls."'

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UK: Nursery school worker charged with sex offences

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'Plymouth, UK: A nursery school worker was today charged with seven offences, including sexual assault and distributing indecent images of children.

Vanessa George, 39, from Plymouth, is accused of four offences of sexual assault and one count each of making, possessing and distributing indecent images of children. George is in custody at Charles Cross police station, where she will be detained until she appears before Plymouth magistrates court tomorrow.
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Police were continuing to speak to staff at the Little Teds nursery in Plymouth and the parents of children who attend the centre. Police have not said whether the allegations relate to children at the nursery.
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George is understood to have worked at the unit for around two to three years as a member of the 15-strong staff.'

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Men rewarded in rape suspect's capture

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'Two Kensington men each received a $5,750 reward yesterday for their roles in the capture of Jose Carrasquillo, 26, who allegedly raped an 11-year-old girl on her way to school Monday morning.

"These guys stepped up to the plate," said Fraternal Order of Police President John McNesby, adding that $1,500 of the reward money was donated by a private citizen. "It shows it really hit the community hard. It's a good feeling [to know] he's off the street."

Investigators determined that two men from the mob of Carrasquillo's attackers, Fernando Genval and David Vargas, should receive the reward, McNesby said.
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In response to controversy surrounding the beating of Carrasquillo before he was charged, McNesby said the FOP does not condone vigilantism, but that he has no problem with how Carrasquillo was apprehended.'

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Wrong man attacked in vigilante injustice

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"Out of nowhere, I just start getting hit with sticks; I get hit with a baseball bat on my back. I was just getting stomped, I was just getting beat up for at least 45 seconds before I knew what was going on," Zenquis said.

It wasn't until then that he knew why he was being pummeled when someone yelled, 'You raped that little girl!.'

"I kept yelling, I'm innocent, I didn't do anything, I don't know what's going on," Zenquis said. "They were just calling me, 'Rapist! You deserve to die!' They were saying, 'Kill him, kill him!', and it was just too much.
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Police officers took him to the hospital and then the special victims unit, where detectives realized he was not the guy they were looking for and let him go. He says he feels terrible for the little girl that was raped and understands the anger people felt, but:

"They shouldn't have took the law into their own hands, ok? Because look, they got the wrong guy. What if they would have killed me? Then what?" Zenquis said.'

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Study: Boys' school issues neglected

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'FAIRBANKS, Alaska, June 9 (UPI) -- Both boys and girls have learning issues, but those affecting boys in school are more serious and have been neglected, a U.S. researcher says.

Judith Kleinfeld of the University of Alaska in Fairbanks, reviewed gender differences in literacy levels, college entrance tests, school grades, engagement in school, dropout rates, as well mental health, suicide, depression and conduct disorders.

The study, published in the journal Gender Issues, found that compared with girls, U.S. boys have lower rates of literacy, lower grades and engagement in school and higher drop-out rates. The boys also had dramatically higher rates of suicide, premature death, injuries, and arrests, and were also placed more often in special education.'

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UK: Why boys can't keep up with the girls

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'But the sheer weight of numbers suggests that it must be only a matter of time before hierarchical professions such as medicine and law are "feminised" – and hopefully for the better. Could it be that the downturn in the economy places an even higher premium on good degrees in the jobs marketplace, enabling more women to launch careers that go all the way to the top? Could it be that future female leaders smash the male-dominated networks that cling onto power so successfully, limiting social mobility in the UK? It will certainly take more than a decade for this to happen.

However, we must not lose sight of the stark underperformance of boys – particularly those from the poorest backgrounds. There are deep-rooted cultural forces at play – a "macho anti-intellectualism" that surfaces particularly during early secondary school. The need for role models is absolutely key. More dads in the primary school classroom would help to combat negative stereotypes of those who do well at school – early in children's lives.'

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