The truth about male victims of domestic abuse

Article here. Excerpt:

'It's time to leave the male bashers, or female abuse deniers out of the picture. Not all men are abusers, and not all women are innocent, or unlikely to commit abuse.

Jan Brown spent years researching domestic violence and interviewing men who fit the definition of abuse. She discovered that there were very few options for male victims.

So she set out to make it right. In October of 2002, she founded the Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women (DAHMW), a non-profit organization created to help men who have been victims of domestic violence. The unique aspect is that this organization is not only for abused men, but abused women as well.'

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Psychologist demolishes anti-shared parenting claims

Article here. Excerpt:

'This article by Peter Tromp who is a Dutch child and educational psychologist, is, for my money, the best, most comprehensive argument for equally shared parenting in existence. In one piece, he lays out the overwhelming case for equally shared parenting along with a good bibliography in support.

As an exercise, first read Tromp's piece and then read the paper by NAWL, the Canadian women's law association which opposes equally shared parenting. Compare the two. Tromp's evidence is voluminous, comprehensive and compelling. The NAWL paper relies on misinformation and anti-father bias to see it through. Comparing the two is like comparing Tolstoy to a comic book.

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Web site to aid abused children shows only father as abuser

Via Jeremy S.: Page is here. Note the posters only seem to show males as perpetrators. Two other posters show what could be women doing the abusing but they are not clearly shown as being women or men. In any case, the bias and ignorance is quite apparent. Contact info is here.

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Domestic violence - now live on the big screen at sporting events

Via email: I came across this video. It's of a man who proposes at a baseball game on live TV and the woman slaps him in the face in front of everyone and storms off.

Even though I don't know the context of this video or the couple's relationship, I feel this is an example of the growing callousness and feelings of entitlement among young women toward men today. Obviously for some reason, she was not pleased and because of that, decided to hit him. Have a good day and thank you for all the work you are doing. Dan.

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Australia: "Domestic violence starts in toddlers"

Article here. We're reaching a new low in domestic abuse rhetoric. The new culprit? You guessed it -- toddlers! The VAWA has abused the constitution to alienate fathers from their families. It pains me to wonder whats in store for our nation's boys. Excerpt:

'A first-of-its-kind-study in Perth has shed a new light on domestic violence and its shocking culprits - children.

Boys and girls starting as young as two have been reported as being verbally abusive towards their mothers before graduating to psychological, emotional and physical abuse at a later age.

Ashleigh Haw, who co-ordinates the Parenting Over Violence Project, has found that teenage boys make up the majority of those committing more serious abuses.'

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UK: Paternity rights: In the name of the father

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UK: Poor pay, worse jobs and terrible bonuses too - sexism in the city lives on

Article here. Excerpt:

'Harriet Harman, minister for women and equality, said the report shone a spotlight on discrimination against women in the financial sector. "We cannot tackle discrimination if it is hidden, which is why I asked the commission to produce this report."

She added it was "unlikely men-only boards and management would ever deliver the change in working culture, such as family-friendly flexible working and childcare, that would allow women to flourish in the workplace".

Tough new measures in the forthcoming equality bill will include gender pay reporting and proposals to ban secrecy clauses that are "particularly prevalent in financial services", she said.

John Cridland, deputy director of the CBI said: "No sector is immune from tackling the gender pay gap, and this report highlights that in parts of the financial services sector there is some further distance to go. But, as in many other areas of business, women applying for the top jobs need more flexibility with hours and childcare responsibilities."

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Trevor Phillips: Women of Britain, I’m here to help

Article here. Excerpt:

'The sleek headquarters of Britain’s equality watchdog is the model of inclusiveness. There’s a breastfeeding room for nursing mothers, subtitles on the television at reception for the hard of hearing, electronic door-opening devices for wheelchair users and an area for saying prayers. The latter was presumably useful this summer as the Equality and Human Rights Commission (EHRC) descended into civil war over Trevor Phillips, its leader.
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“I would say that we have a culture that does produce bias, even if people don’t mean it to ... The simple fact is that most offices, no matter how progressive and enlightened, still work on the basis that the average ‘normal’ worker is a white male, whose children are looked after by someone else, who can work 9-5. That doesn’t work for many women.”

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Commentary: 'Revolution Anyone?'

Article here. Excerpt:

'While perusing the manifesto of this now defunct STORM, several things struck me as particularly interesting. There was of course the passionate commitment to Marxist ideals, radical feminism, gay lesbian and transgender liberation and the ardent support of the unrepentant murderer Mumia Abu Jamal. And there was this rather innocuous looking paragraph, which I found especially fascinating.

"Storm had a closed membership. People could not just decide to join whenever they wanted to. Instead the group invited small classes of activists to become new members. This insured more consistency and accountability within the membership. It also allowed the group to maintain its strict demographic quota requirements; each class was required to be 75% people of color and 60% women."

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FOX: The Trouble With Textbooks

Article here. Excerpt:

'Thirty years later, few textbooks bother with the disguise. Entire chunks of the English language have been banned from the classroom, liquidated in a P.C. purge. First to go were words containing the dreaded term "man," the three letters most offensive to professional feminists. Mailman, chairman, snowman, fisherman, manhole cover--every one now extinct, disdained relics of a bygone age.
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So did it work? Did shielding children from scary words like "mailman" turn them into better students? Compare the test scores in your kids' school district to those from 1960, and judge for yourself. Or consider this: When asked about the Vietnam War recently, almost a quarter of students described it as a conflict between North and South Korea.'

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First stage of trial in Winfrey school scandal ends

Story here. Excerpt:

'SEBOKENG, South Africa — The prosecution finished presenting witnesses Wednesday in the case of a woman accused of abusing six teenagers at Oprah Winfrey's school for poor South African girls, presenting a picture of a short-tempered, jealous young woman.

The testimony from the last prosecution witnesses wrapped up the first stage of the trial, which began more than a year ago.

The defendant, Tiny Virginia Makopo, allegedly tried to kiss and fondle the victims and is also accused of assaulting one of the girls as well as fellow supervisor. The 28-year-old pleaded innocent to 14 charges of indecent assault, assault and criminal injury.

Makopo's lawyer is expected to start the defense stage Monday. A verdict could be months away.

Much of the evidence so far has come from students who testified in a closed session because of their age.

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Troubles had mounted for mother suspected of killing two daughters

Story here. Excerpt:

'On Wednesday morning, Edith and her big sister, Diana Moreno, 17, were found dead, their throats slashed. On Friday, their mother, Antonia Gomez, 38, was arrested on suspicion of killing her daughters.
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Gomez lost her job at a sandwich shop about three months ago and was hospitalized for stress shortly after, relatives said.
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Fuentes owned the property, and until days before the killings had rented out the home in the front.

But she was unable to make the mortgage, and with the home's value plummeting, the property went into foreclosure. Gomez, her mother and the three girls were going to have to find another place to live, relatives said.
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"She didn't have the mental well-being to deal with too much pressure," Gomez Fuentes said. "I just can't visualize her doing this, killing her girls. If she did, she didn't have her five senses."'

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Justice at last! UK teen collapses after being found guilty of false rape accusation

Story here. This one speaks for itself. Excerpt:

'As a jury at the trial of Rosie Waggett returned the unanimous guilty verdict, after deliberating for less than an hour yesterday, the 18-year-old fell to the floor, crying uncontrollably.
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Mr Muir said: She said she didn't have any money, so I asked how she was going to pay for the taxi. She said, "well if he (the taxi driver) asks me about the money I'll just say he tried to rape me."'

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U.S. Life Expectancy at All-Time High but Men Still Lag Behind

Article here. Excerpt:

'Americans are living nearly two-and-a-half months longer, according to new life expectancy statistics released today. In 2007, life expectancy in the United States reached a high of nearly 78 years, up from 77.7 a year earlier.

Life expectancy in the United States has been on the rise for a decade, increasing 1.4 years — from 76.5 years in 1997 to 77.9 in 2007, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The life expectancy data, compiled by the agency’s National Center for Health Statistics, are based on nearly 90 percent of the death certificates filed in the United States.
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The report found that both men and women are living longer, although a gap of five years remains between men and women. In 2007, average life expectancy was 80.4 years for women, but 75.3 years for men. Although men still die younger than women, the gap has narrowed slightly. In 1979, women outlived men by nearly eight years.'

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'Pregnant prisoners shouldn’t be babied'

Article here. Excerpt:

'Ms. Nelson has filed a lawsuit against McPherson prison in Newport, Arkansas, complaining generally that her pre-natal care was below acceptable medical standards, but specifically that her legs were shackled right up to the moment of delivery.

Also, she whined that she had been given only Tylenol for her pain.

I would imagine that Tylenol would be a somewhat mild pain killer to people accustomed to intra-venous heroin.

Dee Ann Newell, whose day job is senior justice fellow at the Soros Foundation, also teaches pre-natal care in Arkansas, weighed in with her opinion of shackling pregnant criminals with this pathetic wheedle.'

“If you have ever seen a woman have a baby, you would know we squirm.” Ms. Newell, in her fevered efforts to condemn everyone but the criminal, fails to understand the widely accepted rules of shackling dangerous prisoners; namely, every state with the exception of California and Illinois, allow shackling of pregnant females.
Could it be that pregnant convicts can be dangerous?

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