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MaleDepression.com Pays Tribute to Sept. 11 Victims
posted by Scott on Wednesday September 11, @10:27AM
from the news dept.
News Steve Imparl's MaleDepression.com site was changed this morning, to create a memorial to the victims of the Sept. 11 attacks. As a site to help promote psycholocial healing, I felt that this was very appropriate. Thanks, Steve.

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Male Depression (Score:1)
by Ray on Wednesday September 11, @08:27PM EST (#1)
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Steve:

Always nice to see your name and postings. I share my own 9/11 story with you. I call it. "If my old chair could talk."

I was already very depressed from being a male victim of d.v. and d.v. law when 9/11 hit. I just seemed to sink ever deeper and longer into that lazy boy recliner till I must have seemed like an unending burden to that poor old chair. When did it get better. I don't know. It didn't happened all at once, but one day I thought I heard my tired old chair speak to me, "Get your immense unbearable weight off my back. You're killing me." I laughed, "Silly chair, you can't talk. Any fool knows that." Maybe then, after about six months, is when it started to get better. My old beat up chair still complains to me about the abuse my ponderous, over weight hulk puts on its tired frame, but I just chuckle off its complaints and curl up snuggly in my potatoesque fashion and enjoy the lazy life.

Getting active in men's issues that address the source of all that pain gives me less time in my old chair than before, and I think that's actually very good overall, although it kinda tires me out some days. All things considered, it's a whole lot better than being depressed and lying like a comatose in that loyal old friend that's shared some of my deepest and most anguished hours.
Ray
Re:Male Depression (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on Thursday September 12, @03:28PM EST (#2)
Great story, Ray. If you lengthened it and let Steve proofread it (he is a writer and a lawyer) you might be able to publish it somewhere.

Re:Male Depression (Score:1)
by Steve (simparl@aol.com) on Thursday September 12, @05:44PM EST (#3)
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Ray,

Thanks for the kind words about my site and for telling your story. I guess that our relationships with chairs (and most other things, for that matter) go better for us when we have some distance from the things. We don't want any codependent relationships with our favorite chairs, do we? :-)

I have to admit, the "lazy life" that you describe has some appeal. Playing hooky from work on a cold winter day, sleeping in on a Saturday morning, and just watching football games on Sunday afternoons (and Saturday afternoons, if you're a college ball fan), are enjoyable. But I can't live like that every day. The key here is balance.

Thanks again.

Peace and good health to you!

Steve
Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.--Ferris Bueller's Day Off

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