RADAR Alert: Protect Our Children, Tell Congress to Hold VAWA Hearings Now

Each year the parents of 1 million American children get a divorce.

In an estimated one-third of divorces, an allegation of domestic
violence is made, often in the form of a restraining order. These
restraining orders have become so widespread that they are referred to
as “silver bullets,” “slam-dunks,” or simply, “divorce planning.”

In half of all restraining orders, there is not even an allegation
of violence. (http://www.mediaradar.org/docs/VAWA-Restraining-Orders.pdf)
Even in those orders that do allege violence, often the person who
requested the order was mutually involved, the dispute was minor, or
the allegation of violence was flat-out false. So it is estimated that
80% or more of DV allegations represent trumped-up and even malicious
claims of domestic “violence.”

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Protect Our Children, Tell Congress to Hold VAWA Hearings Now

In 85% of divorces, custody is awarded to the mother, thus
depriving the children of contact from their father.

That means each year, false claims of domestic violence contribute
to over 200,000 children losing daily contact with their father. That's
about 550 children each and every day. And that's a huge tragedy
for our children and for our nation.

This spring, 25 organizations from across the country banded
together and signed on to a Resolution to counter the negative impact
of VAWA. The Resolution
is shown at the end of this Alert.

We are requesting that Congress hold hearings on the massive civil
rights violations that are happening each and every day, as a direct
result of VAWA-funded programs.

This Alert is the last call for our VAWA Spring Campaign.
This is it. Please contact your Representative and two Senators with
this very simple message:

WE WANT CONGRESS TO CONDUCT HEARINGS ON THE MASSIVE CIVIL
RIGHTS ABUSES OF VAWA. AND WE WANT THE HEARINGS NOW.

Please make a telephone call to the Legislative Aide who deals with
judicial or family issues. Or better yet, fax a copy a copy of the
Resolution to your elected official.

Please do it now, for a better future, for our children.


RESOLUTION

Regarding the Violence Against Women Act

  1. Whereas, in 2000 Senator Orrin Hatch directed the
    executive branch to “ensure that men who have been victimized by
    domestic violence and sexual assault will receive benefits and services
    under the Act” href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote1sym" > 1
  2. Whereas, despite that statement of Congressional
    intent, male victims continue to be turned away from VAWA-funded
    shelters. href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote2sym" > 2
  3. Whereas, the language of the 2005 Violence Against
    Women Act now recognizes that male victims of domestic violence are in
    need of treatment and protection, and requires VAWA-funded programs to
    provide them with such services. name="sdendnote3anc"
    href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote3sym" > 3
  4. Whereas, VAWA funds judicial education programs that
    instruct judges to disregard constitutionally-protected due process
    provisions, href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote4sym" > 4
  5. Whereas, judges often issue restraining orders
    without any direct threat of harm, name="sdendnote5anc"
    href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote5sym" >5
    ,
    href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote6sym" >6
    and restraining orders are widely used as “part of the gamesmanship of
    divorce.” href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote7sym" >7,
    href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote8sym" >8
  6. Whereas, the Massachusetts Trial Court found that
    less than half of all restraining orders issued in that state involved
    even an allegation of physical violence, href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote9sym" > 9
  7. Whereas, it has been estimated that each year one
    million protective orders are issued in the United States, and about
    500,000 of such orders represent a direct violation of due process
    protections, href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote10sym" >10,
    href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote11sym" >11
  8. Whereas, 15% of such protective orders are issued
    against women and 85% against men. name="sdendnote12anc"
    href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote12sym" > 12
  9. Whereas, research shows that most instances of
    partner aggression are minor in nature, name="sdendnote13anc"
    href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote13sym" >13

    and such cases require counseling, not legal intervention,
  10. Whereas, VAWA-funded programs and policies often
    discourage couple counseling and partner reconciliation, and
  11. Whereas, various VAWA incentives serve to promote
    family break-up, href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote14sym" >14
    which results in children losing daily contact with one of their
    parents. href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote15sym" > 15

Therefore, the undersigned organizations request that:

  1. The VAWA appropriation bill for FY2007 include report language
    directing the DoJ Violence Against Women Office to provide Congress, no
    later than December 30, 2007, with client utilization statistics of
    VAWA-funded programs and services, in compliance with the
    male-inclusive requirements of Section 40002(b)(8) of the 2005 Violence
    Against Women Act.
  2. The Senate and House Appropriations Committees support and
    approve President Bush’s budget request to fund the Violence Against
    Women Act at the $347 million level in FY2007.
  3. The United States Congress establish a panel to investigate the
    claims that the Violence Against Women Act promotes the excessive
    issuance of restraining orders, which often leads to family break-up
    and inappropriate loss of parent involvement.

Signed:

Michael J. Geanoulis

RADAR: Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting
Mike East

FATHERS: Fathers Asking to Have Equal Rights
Gary Gagnon

National Congress of Fathers and Children – New Hampshire
David R. Usher

ACFC – Missouri Coalition
Dan Hogan

Fathers and Families
Pastor Kenneth Deemer

Shattered Men
Alan Rusmisel

Alabama Coalition of Fathers and Children
D'Arcy L. McGreer

Fathers for Virginia
Lee Newman

Stop Abuse for Everyone, NH Chapter
Michael McCormick

American Coalition for Fathers and Children
Jamil Jabr

Fathers-4-Justice
Philip Cook

Stop Abuse for Everyone
Tom Smith

American Union for Men
Richar’ Farr

Krights Radio
Lisa Scott

TABS: Taking Action Against Bias in the System
James Hays

Coalition of Fathers and Families NY, Inc.
Harry Crouch

Men’s Advocacy Network
Terri Lynn Tersak

True-Equality.org
Paul Clements

Dads Against Divorce Discrimination-NH
Jeffrey W. Dick

MensCustodyShelterNetwork.com
Gregory Romeo

Tulsa Area Fathers Rights Association
James Semerad

Dads and Moms of Michigan
Marc Snider

NHCustody.org
 
Michael Burns

Dialogue on Sustainable Community
Marc Angelucci

National Coalition of Free Men, Los Angeles Chapter
 


href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote1anc" > 1
Congressional Record, October 11, 2000, pp. S10191-92.

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote2anc" > 2
RADAR. VAWA Programs discriminate against male victims. Rockville, MD:
Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting, 2006. target="_blank" href="http://www.mediaradar.org/" > www.mediaradar.org

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote3anc" > 3
Violence Against Women Act, Section 40002(b)(8).

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote4anc" > 4
Bleemer R: N.J. judges told to ignore rights in abuse TROs. New
Jersey
Law Journal April 24, 1995.

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote5anc" > 5
David Heleniak. The new Star Chamber: The New Jersey family court and
the prevention of Domestic Violence Act. Rutgers Law Review
, Spring 2005.

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote6anc" > 6
Wendy McElroy. Abuse of temporary restraining orders endangers real
victims. FoxNews.com , December 27, 2005.

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote7anc" > 7
Thomas Kasper. Obtaining and defending against an order of protection.
Illinois Bar Journal
  June 2005.

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote8anc" > 8
Thomas Kiernan. Re: False Claims. New Jersey Law Journal ,
April 21, 1988 Vol. 121 p. 6.

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote9anc" > 9
Office of the Commissioner of Probation, Massachusetts Trial Court: The
tragedies of domestic violence: A qualitative analysis of civil
restraining orders. October 12, 1995.

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote10anc" > 10
Dorothy Carl Quinn. Ex parte protection orders: Is due process locked
out? Temple Law Quarterly Vol. 58, Winter 1985.

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote11anc" > 11
RADAR. VAWA: Threat to families, children, men, and women. Rockville,
MD: Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting, 2006. www.mediaradar.org .

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote12anc" > 12
Cathy Young. Domestic violence: An in-depth analysis. Washington, DC:
Independent Women’s Forum, 2005.

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote13anc" > 13
Linda Kelly. Disabusing the definition of domestic abuse. Florida
State University Law Review
Vol. 30, 2003.

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote14anc" > 14
Phyllis Schlafly. Federal incentives make children fatherless,
Human Events Online
, May 11, 2005.

href="http://www.mediaradar.org/alert20060421.php#sdendnote15anc" > 15
Stephen Baskerville. Violence against families: Fathers fall victim to
domestic-abuse laws. American Conservative , August 29,
2005, pp. 23-25.


Date of RADAR Release: April 21, 2006

R.A.D.A.R. – Respecting Accuracy in Domestic
Abuse Reporting – is a network of concerned
men and women working to assure that the problem of
domestic violence is treated in a balanced and
effective manner. http://www.mediaradar.org/.

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