CNN: Some ex-wives have to pay 'manimony'

Article here. Excerpt:

'For most of the history of marriage, money changed hands before the ceremony, often in the form of dowries. But as divorce started to become more common in the 1900s, so did post-separation monetary agreements.
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The Uniform Marriage and Divorce Act of 1970 gave men as well as women the right to ask for alimony. Up until the 1980s, however, there were only a handful of cases in the U.S. in which a woman was ordered to give money to her spouse in a divorce case. However, "in recent years there's been a greater movement towards gender equality," says Phillips.
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Jeffrey Leving, an Illinois divorce lawyer and author of the book "Fathers' Rights" attributes a rising trend in women paying spousal support in part to an increased number of fathers serving as primary caregivers.
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Chemtob says close to one-tenth of her clients are women who pay alimony to their exes. "When I first started 14 years ago, that number was zero," she says.'

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Prostate Cancer Petition

Please sign the petition on this website if you haven't done so already:

http://www.prostatecancerpetition.org/

Over 4,000 people have signed so far -- spread the word and let's make it 5,000 by the month's end!

Many thanks to you all.

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Boy Lured by Photo of Pamela Anderson's Breasts Into Sex With Co-Worker

Story here. This woman somehow justifies her actions because he was a 'big strong boy'. Absolutely sickening! Excerpt:

'A 32-year-old woman sent a picture of Pamela Anderson's breasts to a 15-year-old workmate shortly before beginning a sexual relationship with him, the Supreme Court in Launceston has heard.

Courtney Isabella Bailey, now 34, told police that the boy had tested her asking her for a picture of her breasts – but she sent a picture of the Baywatch star's breasts instead.

Bailey received a four-month suspended jail term today after pleading guilty to five counts of unlawful sexual intercourse with a person under the age of 17 in January 2007.'

Bailey had remarked to his parents that he was a "big strong boy" for a 15-year-old."

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Fathers' Rights Groups Celebrate One-Year Anniversary of Rallies in the Park

Fathers' Rights Groups Celebrate One-Year Anniversary of Rallies in the Park

"Last May 2007, some people now living in Los Angeles weren't even born. A little, eight-month-old girl who attended our May ’08 anniversary celebration is shown in one photo, being held in her Daddy’s arms."

"A Los Angeles County District Attorney, running for a Judge's Office in the June election, stopped by unannounced to solicit our votes. "I'm with you guys," he said. "I almost got divorced a few years back and it was a real eye opener," he said."

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Police: Woman Left Newborn Son to Suffocate in Trunk of Car

Story here. Excerpt:

'GASTONIA, N.C. — A Lincolnton, N.C., woman has been charged with felony child abuse after police said she left her newborn son in the trunk of a car to suffocate.

Authorities said 22-year-old Sharena Waynette Bess is scheduled to appear in Gaston County District Court on Tuesday. The infant is expected to make a full recovery.

Police said Bess gave birth in Charlotte on Friday, then drove herself to a women's health care facility in Gastonia. She was taken to a hospital where police say she told personnel she left the infant in a box at another hospital. A search turned up nothing.

Police later searched her car and found the baby in the trunk wrapped in a towel and placed in a book bag. An arrest warrant said Bess "left him there to asphyxiate."

Bess is being held at Gaston County Jail on $100,000 bond.'

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Operation "G-WAR"

I've been thinking long and hard about the state of men in this country and in the Western world, generally.

Each and every day through media, family courts and other places. The constant belittling, dehumanizing, mockery and gynosexism and over all bigotry against men our "civilization" is bathed in and beaten over the head with. And increasingly, I see the effects on not just men but women, too. The damage is severe. It has been nearly completely absorbed into the public Psyche, things that would now be considered unacceptable to be said or done to ANY group of Americans, and called "bigotry" and "un-American" is said and done to men on an ever flow basis.

We call America a "free country". with "Freedom and Justice for ALL". I don't care WHAT you've been told, this country is NOT "liberty" OR "JUSTICE" for "ALL".

If it were, Native Americans would not be starving to death, living in 3rd world conditions on forgotten wastelands called "reservations". And, if it were, hate speech against MEN would not be tolerated any more that it would be WOMEN.

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Mom forced to live in car with dogs widely reported-- homeless men still ignored

This story has been all over the news. It has been the top headline on CNN's news site. As usual, we hear very little in regard to the massive disparity of the male homeless population. I work as a psychiatric social worker and take it from me, the vast majority of the mentally ill individuals I place in supportive housing are male. One particular man was living behind a 7-11. During the winter he had his foot amputated because of frost bite. The man was so happy when my agency purchased him a wheel chair. You'll never see such male suffering anywhere on cable news. Excerpt:

"John Quigley, an economics professor at the University of California-Berkeley, said the California housing crisis has left many middle-class families temporarily homeless or forced them to go to food banks to feed their families.

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Wendy McElroy: A feminist defense of men's rights

There's nothing like a McElroy article to stir some heated debate. Have fun guys! Excerpt:

'This is a transcription of a speech delivered before a man's rights group.

"When they speak, their voices sound similar to those of women in the 60's when the feminist movement, called Second Wave feminism, swept through our culture like a force of nature and left it changed forever. The women demanded of men, "Give us equal rights, give us respect." Forty years later -- two generations later -- the situation has been reversed. It is now men, not women, who are protesting against systematic discrimination against their sex. Even the issues around which the complaints gather are similar to those raised in the '60s. Men are saying they are not taken seriously by the police as victims of domestic violence. Similar to female rape victims from decades ago, society tends to stigmatize and blame men who are victims of spousal abuse."'

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New York Times: Girls’ Gains Have Not Cost Boys, Report Says

Article here. Excerpt:

'The American Association of University Women, whose 1992 report on how girls are shortchanged in the classroom caused a national debate over gender equity, has turned its attention to debunking the idea of a “boys’ crisis.”

“Girls’ gains have not come at boys’ expense,” says a new report by the group, to be released on Tuesday in Washington.
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“Many people remain uncomfortable with the educational and professional advances of girls and women, especially when they threaten to outdistance their male peers,” the report says , citing Christina Hoff Sommers’s 2000 book, “The War Against Boys: How Misguided Feminism is Harming Our Young Men.”'

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Erectile dysfunction warns of worse problems

Article here. Excerpt:

"Men with diabetes already know that erectile dysfunction can be a distressing side effect of the illness, adding insult to injury for about 80 percent of those who have the disease.

But sexual symptoms may also signal problems that go beyond impaired intimacy, according to new research that shows diabetic men who struggle with impotence face twice the risk for potentially deadly heart problems.

In fact, erectile dysfunction can predict cardiovascular troubles that include chest pain, heart attack, stroke — and death, according to two new studies published in the latest issue of the Journal of the American College of Cardiology."

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29% of US men are domestic abuse victims

Story here. Excerpt:

'WASHINGTON: Almost a third of men have been victims of domestic violence, though their trauma is often hidden and understudied — just as in the case of women 10 years ago, according to a new study.

The American study, which involved phone interviews with over 400 randomly sampled adult males, came up with some surprising findings.

As many as five percent of the men had experienced domestic violence in the past year, 10% in the past five years, and 29% over their lifetimes.'

Also see article here.

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Please vote in survey on Equal Parenting Rights, and special thanks

Please vote here as soon as possible.

Detroit News also saw the traffic, comment, etc and moved the online story to not only the news section but also on the Detroit News homepage. Thank you! Help us make #1 story by 12EST see home page - On the right side "Most Popular" (http://www.detnews.com/apps/pbcs.dll/frontpage)

Also, because of the traffic online, comments, survey votes Detroit News has added yet another box to the right of the article titled “More information”. Prior to this they only had the “related content” box. They also linked to the DC Rally as well.

Those who have helped out so far with comments, traffic, survey votes, etc need to be commended for seeing the value in acting promptly. Your wisdom is greatly appreciated.

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CNN: DNA cleared them, but they'll never feel free

Story here. Excerpt:

'DALLAS, Texas (CNN) -- Wiley Fountain is homeless just five years after he walked out of prison an innocent man. He is one of the 17 men wrongfully convicted in Dallas County, Texas, then cleared by DNA evidence.

He was one of the lucky few to receive financial compensation from the state, but the $190,000 or so that made it into his pocket is long gone.

For awhile, Fountain wandered the streets of Dallas, looking for aluminum cans to trade in for cash. He earned the occasional meal by cleaning the parking lot of a restaurant. At night he had nowhere to go.

Blackburn said these wrongly convicted men get "a double-whammy screw job." He said there's little help from the government to transition back into society and they're still viewed as criminals once they're out of prison.'

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Research suggests women uninterested in careers in hard science, engineering and IT

This article discusses recent studies indicating that, on the average, women select themselves out of careers in the hard sciences, engineering and information technology.

For example, one study, published in the Journal of Economic Psychology in November 2007, found that "...personal preference was the single largest determinative factor in whether women went into IT." The study found that that "preference accounted for about two-thirds of the gender imbalance" in information technology.

Another study of mathematically precocious men and women found that men were "much more likely to go into engineering or physical sciences than women," whereas women "were more likely to go into careers in medicine, biological sciences, humanities, and social sciences."

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Equal Parenting Trek Makes Front Page of Detroit News

Story here. Excerpt:

'Robert Pedersen was devastated three years ago when a divorce judge said he could see his two children only a few days a month.

Pedersen's divorce agreement now includes long weekends, a Wednesday overnight visit and half of summers, holidays and spring breaks with his children. It's almost enough time to make him feel that he can provide an equal amount of parenting to his kids.

Michigan law recommends that custody decisions be based on which parent has been the primary caregiver unless it can be shown that another arrangement is more appropriate, but Pedersen and other noncustodial parents are fighting to modify the law so joint physical custody becomes the norm. They view equal parenting access as a civil rights issue, but opponents say equal time isn't always best for children.'

MAJOR KUDOS TO ALL INVOLVED!

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