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A New Feature: Ask Ads
posted by Adam on Tuesday April 29, @05:26PM
from the Announcements dept.
Announcements Yep, Yours truly is about to start doing a weekly advice piece coming to you each friday (Or bi-weekly, depending on how it goes) where you can ask me various questions (not strictly on men's issues) the more interesting questions will be more likely to be answered. To begin asking, send me an email with "Ask Ads" in the header to adam@mensactivism.org while I can't answer everyone, I will read 'em all, So we'll see how it goes.

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Dear Adam (Score:2)
by Dan Lynch on Tuesday April 29, @03:24PM EST (#1)
(User #722 Info) http://www.fathersforlife.org/fv/Dan_Lynch_on_EP.htm
Can you tell me how to score with asian chicks?
Re:Dear Adam (Score:1)
by Adam H (adam@mensactivism.org) on Tuesday April 29, @05:56PM EST (#2)
(User #362 Info)
Yeah, go for ones that are easy like sunday morning :-D
Re:Dear Adam (Score:1)
by Adam H (adam@mensactivism.org) on Tuesday April 29, @06:15PM EST (#3)
(User #362 Info)
Actually, a while ago one of my sources told me about a place you might be interested in. I don't know how he came across this, but here's a cut and paste:

I live in the Philippines, specifically Angeles City, about 100km north of Manila, where the now closed U.S. Clark Air Base is. We have a community of about 6,000 American, brits, aussies, and assorted european MEN here. Why? Well, we have cable tv, McDonalds and KFC, the inter- net, I drive a Honda Civic, there are dutyfree import shops on the base, all the normal stuff we're used to back home with one big difference: we get laid any and every time we want by girls half our age. Not just hookers, but english-speaking women who will fall in love with you (really) very easily and never leave you. A retirees paradise; you would need at least $1,000 (US) per month to live comfortably.

I came across this by pure fluke, i've no idea if it's true of not, But someday i'll be going there to find out :-)
Re:Philippines (Score:1)
by Dittohd on Wednesday April 30, @02:40AM EST (#10)
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Where did you see this paragraph and how old is the info?

I'm presently considering moving to the Philippines. I've been checking out the personals on the internet from Filipino women for a long time and like what I see.

I've also been considering China as I find Chinese women and their personals attractive also. Anyone here know anything about China?

Dittohd

Re:Philippines (Score:1)
by Adam H (adam@mensactivism.org) on Wednesday April 30, @06:15AM EST (#12)
(User #362 Info)
Where did you see this paragraph and how old is the info?

I think my source said he got it off Angry Harry's site just under a year ago roughly.
Re:Dear Adam (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on Wednesday April 30, @07:17AM EST (#14)
Angeles City is a hole by all reports I trust. It's little more than a one street town set in barren wilderness far from the sea that exists only as a place for military retirees to hook-up with young uneducated philipinas.

You'd be better off looking in the places where Philippinos like to live when they're not being sex workers. Or go to Pattaya.

cheers,
Tim

Re:Dear Adam (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on Tuesday April 29, @08:46PM EST (#4)
((("Can you tell me how to score with Asian chicks?"))

Easy, Don't act the way feminists demand men to act.
I had a fair amount of luck with girls who were Asian, back in my day.
This may come accross as a generalization, and I'm sorry if it is. But all the Asian girls I dated were attracted to the fact I was respectful and kind to them, but didn't take any crap.
Any one wondering why I had to say good-bye to any of these girls, The reasons were numerous. One girl from Japan I dated was only to be in America for a while, then she went back to Japan.
Another girl who was Vietnamese, I believe, Was forced to break up with me by her parents who didn't want her dateing "Tonto".
Some of the others, well, we just weren't compatable, so we mutualy split.
In any of those realationship break ups, though, NONE of them were hatefull, spiteful, or anything. They were amicable to say the least.

I suppose if I ever DID decide to date again, I would probably look amoung Asian women.
That is IF I ever decided to date again. ...Which I probably WON'T.

  -Thundercloud.
Thundercloud's Insight (Score:2)
by Thomas on Tuesday April 29, @09:40PM EST (#5)
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all the Asian girls I dated were attracted to the fact I was respectful and kind to them, but didn't take any crap.

There've been some discussions on this site in which some men have maintained that women want and need to be dominated. I haven't engaged in those discussions in large part because I don't have the time. I will say now, however, that you have stated a profound truth, Thundercloud, though I don't think it's true just of Asian women.

Sure, some women want to be dominated. So do some men. I've always gotten along well with most women and girls, and I think that's because I consider what they say. (Maybe I've got the right pheromones, too. I don't know.) I treat women as potential equals when we meet, and I respect them if they earn my respect.

Most women don't want to be dominated. On the other hand, they don't respect men who submit to crap.

The problem we have today is that a cabal of hateful, evil women and their toady, femboy lackeys have a near stranglehold on society and its laws. The problem isn't women. The problem is the man-hating women and their groveling male servants, who control our society.
Re:Thundercloud's Insight (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on Tuesday April 29, @10:58PM EST (#8)
Thomas.
Again you praise me far more than I deserve.
Not that I MIND, of course! (^_^)
Thanks.
And appearantly you hold a more than fair ammount of insight, yourself.

-Thundercloud.
Re:Dear Adam (Score:1)
by Hunsvotti on Tuesday April 29, @09:56PM EST (#7)
(User #573 Info)
Haha! A few minutes ago I was in the car and I had the Tom Leykis show on, and he was talking about how he has given up on dating American women. He says that many of them... get this...
  • Want to be treated like queens, and put upon a pedestal, as in the old days;
  • But fixing you a sandwich is anathema - they just won't do it.
I wonder if Professor Leykis ever reads this site, because that sounds very familiar. ;)
Re:Dear Adam (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on Tuesday April 29, @11:23PM EST (#9)
How DARE you ask her to make you a measly SANDWICH!!!

But she does expect YOU to;
Take out the stinky garbage, Warm up the car for her on a cold, snowy day, Get your lights punched out in trying to defend her, Go check to see what that "noise" was, Go off to some God-forsaken country and get your head blown off to defend her rights and liberties, Kill that (harmless) little spider in the bath tub, Carrie in the grocieries, or her bounty when she's gone "shopping", Tell her she DOESN'T look fat in those jeans, Pay for every date before and after you're married, Mow the lawn, Rake the leaves, Pay attention to her 24-7 especialy when the super bowl is on, Climb a tall tree to get the cat down, Be in a good mood even if you've had a LOUSY day, Be in the mood for sex when EVER she demands it, (otherwise she'll question your sexuality) but never if SHE doesn't feel like it, Fix the car, Fix the plumming, Fix the porch, Fix the washer and dryer, Fix the refrigerator, Fix the vaccum cleaner, Fix the garbage disposal, Fix the computer, Fix the dish washer....(Infinity).

But ask her to make you a SANDWICH?!?
The ordasity!

  -Thundercloud.
Re:Dear Adam (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on Wednesday April 30, @07:08AM EST (#13)
tc> But all the Asian girls I dated were attracted to the fact I was respectful and kind to them, but didn't take any crap.

I too have had some small success with the Asian chicks (in my day :) and I can verify that these are sage words indeed!

I agree that on average Asian women are much better prospects than the local white women as mates, but "take no crap" is still a necessary attitude. They will try you out with games and lies rather than confrontations, but they will try you out.

Once a woman of any color or society has herself a man she will naturally be curious to find out whether she can walk right over him and take whatever it is he has of value without a fight. Traditionally being cautious she will start small and push push push until she meets some resistance.

The sooner she meets that resistance the healthier their relationship will be.

cheers,
Tim

Success with Asian women (Score:2)
by MrDave (One_man (-at-) fastmail (-dot-) FM) on Thursday May 15, @02:36PM EST (#21)
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Thundercloud's advice confirms my experience with Asian women.

I have dated Asian women and I have employed Asian women in my business - not the same women, of course.

As Thundercloud recommends, being "respectful and kind" gets a wonderfully postive response ... it's what used to be called, "good manners".

My experiences include women from Taiwan, Vietnam, Communist China, Korea, Japan and second generation born-in America. Not all are perfectly wonderful, but it didn't take many to get to the point where I simply won't bother with American-Caucasian women any more ... just not worth the trouble.

. - Mr. Dave . . . Reno, Nevada, USA
Re:Scoring With Asian Chicks (Score:1)
by Dittohd on Wednesday April 30, @03:17AM EST (#11)
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> Can you tell me how to score with asian chicks?

My advice is to be yourself. Don't be phony.

I'm a shy kind of guy, although I'm no longer near as shy as I used to be. I'm a conservative, intelligent-looking guy who's always found American women difficult to pick up. Basically, I'm a nerd. A pencil-neck geek. I married a Japanese woman who I met while stationed in Japan over 30 years ago and she has told me in the past few months that just about all her friends who have met me have said they find me very attractive.

My wife has commented that I'm probably a "Japanese woman" kind of guy, but I don't think that's it. I think it's just that Oriental women (real Oriental women overseas) like and respect intelligent, American men.

So my advice is to just be yourself and don't be afraid to dive in. You don't have to act like someone you're not to attract Oriental women.

And to comment on Thundercloud's comment about American women feeling that making their man a sandwich is beneath them... In the 16 years that I was married to my wife while in the Air Force, I never once had to shine my shoes, other than when I was temporarily away from home. She always shined them for me without me asking. This is not a blanket endorsement of my wife as I'm planning to get a divorce very soon, but overseas Oriental women are just better in most ways. Just make sure you get one who speaks good English or is willing to really put forth the effort to learn it well. Unless, of course, you can speak her language and want one who can't speak English. I can definitely understand the reasons for that train of thought.

Dittohd

Re:Scoring With Asian Chicks - Slight Correction (Score:1)
by Dittohd on Wednesday April 30, @01:41PM EST (#17)
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> Basically, I'm a nerd. A pencil-neck geek.

Slight correction... The above statement should read...

Basically, I'm a bean counter, nerd, and pencil-neck geek rolled into one.

Ha! ha!

Dittohd

Here's a question about a men's issue (Score:1)
by Hunsvotti on Tuesday April 29, @09:50PM EST (#6)
(User #573 Info)
I have a question about an issue which is of great importance to many men around the world. This is an issue which has inspired THOUSANDS of heated arguments on various Internet forums for YEARS. OK, here goes: Which is better in general, a supercharged V6 or a naturally-aspirated V8? :)
Re:Here's a question about a men's issue (Score:1)
by DaveK67 on Wednesday April 30, @07:48AM EST (#15)
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That one's easy... a Supercharged V8 of course. :)
 
(Proud owner of 383 cubes of fuel injected supercharged fun in a candy apple red package :)
Re:Here's a question about a men's issue (Score:1)
by Hunsvotti on Wednesday April 30, @11:28AM EST (#16)
(User #573 Info)
I hate you.
Re:Here's a question about a men's issue (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on Thursday May 01, @05:27AM EST (#20)
That's it I'm OUTTA here!!!

-Thundercloud.
Re "As Ads" (Score:1)
by Dittohd on Wednesday April 30, @01:55PM EST (#18)
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> "while I can't answer everyone, I will read 'em all..."

You can't answer them all? So what's the point of asking?

Sorry, but I think taking the time to ask rhetorical questions is boring.

If you're really good, why don't you answer them all and charge a fee for the answers.

Too many questions? Increase the fee.

Dittohd

Re: "Ask Ads" (Score:1)
by Adam H (adam@mensactivism.org) on Wednesday April 30, @02:51PM EST (#19)
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You can't answer them all? So what's the point of asking?

Well, you asked me a question, perhaps you can tell me the point of asking.

Sorry, but I think taking the time to ask rhetorical questions is boring.

If I thought that, you'd have no answer to your question in comment 12.

If you're really good, why don't you answer them all and charge a fee for the answers. Too many questions? Increase the fee.

Hmmm. don't know about that one, besides I've not even started yet.

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