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Debunking Yet Another Feminist Lie
posted by Thomas on 11:57 AM May 19th, 2004
False Accusations Here's an essay by K.C.Wilson debunking the typical, feminist lie that in the past men were allowed to beat their wives, so long as their weapons were no wider than their thumbs.

I've put this under false accusations because the so-called "rule of thumb" is a standard feminist lie against the alleged "patriarchy." In other words, it's a typical, false accusation against men in general.

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"Rule of Thumb for Wife-Beating" Hoax (Score:1)
by Ragtime on 01:12 PM May 19th, 2004 EST (#1)
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"The Rule of Thumb"
from Who Stole Feminism? - Christina Hoff Sommers,

The "Rule of Thumb for Wife-Beating" Hoax

Feminists often make that claim that the "rule of thumb" used to mean that it was legal to beat your wife with a rod, so long as that rod were no thicker than the husband's thumb. Thus, one constantly runs into assertions like this:

someone might want to be careful using "rule of thumb" in a sarcastic way. my criminal law teacher at UCLA noted that rule of thumb started in England for punishing wives who cheated on their husbands. the rule was that the rod used to beat them could not be thicker than one's thumb(!).


However, Christina Hoff Sommers documents how the link between the phrase "rule of thumb" and wifebeating is a feminist-inspired myth of recent vintage. In her book "Who Stole Feminism" (NY: Simon & Schuster, 1994, p. 203) Sommers writes:

...The 'rule of thumb' story is an example of revisionist history that feminists happily fell into believing. It reinforces their perspective on society, and they tell it as a way of winning converts to their angry creed...


The 'rule of thumb', however, turns out to be an excellent example of what may be called a feminist fiction. Is is not to be found in William Blackstone's treatise on English common law. On the contrary, British law since the 1700s and our American laws predating the Revolution prohibit wife beating, though there have been periods and places in which the prohibition was only indifferently
enforced.

That the phrase did not even originate in legal practice could have been ascertained by any fact-checker who took the trouble to look it up in the Oxford English Dictionary, which notes that the term has been used metaphorically for at least three hundred years to refer to any method of measurement or technique of estimation derived from experience rather than science.

According to Canadian folklorist Philip Hiscock, "The real explanation of 'rule of thumb' is that it derives from wood workers... who knew their trade so well they rarely or never fell back on the use of such things as rulers. instead, they would measure things by, for example, the length of their thumbs." Hiscock adds that the phrase came into metaphorical use by the late seventeenth century. Hiscock could not track the source of the idea that the term derives from a principle governing wife beating, but he believes it is an example of 'modern folklore' and compares it to other 'back-formed explanations.' such as the claim asparagus comes from 'sparrow-grass' or that 'ring around the rosy' is about the plague.

We shall see that Hiscock's hunch was correct, but we must begin by exonerating William Blackstone (1723-1780), the Englishman who codified centuries of legal customs and practices into the elegant and clearly organized tome known as Commentaries on the Laws of England. The Commentaries, a classic of legal literature, became the basis for the development of American law. The so-called rule of thumb as a guideline for wife-beating does not occur in Blackstone's compendium, although he does refer to an ancient law that permitted "domestic chastisement"....

In America, there have been laws against wife [or husband!] beating since before the Revolution. By 1870, it was illegal in almost every state; but even before then, wife-beaters were arrested and punished for assault and battery. The historian and feminist Elizabeth Pleck observes in a scholarly article entitled "Wife-Battering in Nineteenth-Century America":

It has often been claimed that wife-beating in nineteenth-century America was legal... Actually, though, several states passed statutes legally prohibiting wife-beating; and at least one statute even predates the American Revolution. The Massachusetts Bay Colony prohibited wife-beating as early as 1655. The edict states: "No man shall strike his wife nor any woman her husband on penalty of such fine not exceeding ten pounds for one offense, or such corporal punishment as the County shall determine."


[Pleck] points out that punishments for wife/husband-beaters could be severe: according to an 1882 Maryland statute, the culprit could receive forty lashes at the whipping post; in Delaware, the number was thirty. In New Mexico, fines ranging from $225 to $1000 were levied, or sentences of one to five years in prison imposed. For most of our history, in fact, wife/husband-beating has been considered a sin comparable to to thievery or adultery. Religious groups -- especially Protestant groups such as Quakers, Methodists, and Baptists -- punished, shunned, and excommunicated wife/husband-beaters. Husbands, brothers, and neighbors often took vengence against the batterer. Vigilante parties sometimes abducted wife-beaters and whipped them.

Just how did the false account originate, and how did it achieve authority and currency? As with many myths, there is a small core of fact surrounded by an accretion of error. In the course of rendering rulings on cases before them, two Southern judges had alluded to an 'ancient law' according to which a man could beat his wife as long as the implement was not wider than his thumb. The judges, one from North Carolina and one from Mississippi, did not accept the authority of the 'ancient law.' The North Carolina judge refered to it as 'barbarism,' and both judges found the husband in the case in question guilty of wife abuse. Nevertheless, their rulings seemed to tolerate the notion that men had a measure of latitude in physically chastising their wives. Fortunately, as Pleck takes pains to remind us, they were not representative of judicial opinion in the rest of the country.

In 1976, Del Martin, a coordinator of the N.O.W. Task Force on Battered Women, came across a reference to the two judges and their remarks. Neither judge had used the phrase "rule of thumb," but a thumb had been mentioned, and Ms. Martin took note of it:

Our law, based upon the old English common-law doctrines, explicitly permitted wife-beating for correctional purposes. However, certain restrictions did exist... For instance, the common-law doctrine had been modified to allow the husband "the right to whip his wife, provided that he used a switch no bigger than his thumb" -- a rule of thumb, so to speak.


Ms. Martin had not claimed that the term "rule of thumb" originated from common law. Before long, however, the "ancient law" alluded to by two obscure Southern judges was being treated as an unchallenged principle of both British and American law, and journalists and academics alike were bandying the notion about. Feminist Terry Davidson, in an article entitled "Wife Beating: A Recurring Phenomenon Throughout History," claims that "one of the reasons nineteenth century British wives were dealt with so harshly by their husbands and by their legal system was the 'rule of thumb'" and castigates Blackstone himself. "Blackstone saw nothing unreasonable about the wife-beating law. In fact, he believed it to be quite moderate."

These interpretive errors were given added authority by a group of scholars and lawyers who, in 1982, prepared a report on wife abuse for the United States Commission on Civil Rights, Under the Rule of Thumb: Battered Women and the Administration of Justice -- A Report of the United States Commission on Civil Rights_. On the second page, they note: "American law is built upon the British common law that condoned wife beating and even prescribed the weapon to be used. This 'rule of thumb' stipulated that a man could only beat his wife with a 'rod not thicker than his thumb.'" It went on to speak of Blackstone as the jurist who "greatly influenced the making of the law in the American colonies [and who] commented on the 'rule of thumb,'" justifying the rule by noting that "the law thought it reasonable to intrust [the husband] with this power of... chastisement, in the same moderation that a man is allowed to correct his apprentices or children."

The publication of the report established the feminist fable about the origins of the term in popular lore, and the misogyny of Blackstone and "our law" as "fact." Misstatements about the "rule of thumb" still appear in the popular press.

That same 1993 Time magazine article that popularized the nonexistent March of Dimes study on domestic violence and birth defects and reported that "between 22% and 35% of all visits by females to emergency rooms are for injuries from domestic assaults" also cited new York University law professor Holly Maguigan: "We talk about the notion of the rule of thumb, forgetting that it had to do with the restriction on a man's right to use a weapon against his wife: he couldn't use a rod that was larger than his thumb." Professor Maguigan's law students would do well to check their Blackstone.

Ragtime

The Uppity Wallet

The opinions expressed above are my own, but you're welcome to adopt them.

Re:"Rule of Thumb for Wife-Beating" Hoax (Score:1)
by this is not equality on 01:25 PM May 19th, 2004 EST (#2)
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"The 'rule of thumb', however, turns out to be an excellent example of what may be called a feminist fiction."

Does feminist "Non-Fiction" even exist? I mean in the minds of anyone BUT a feminist (for example...a rational person)?

Jeff
"All human laws which contradict God's laws, we are bound in conscience to disobey." George Mason
Re:"Rule of Thumb for Wife-Beating" Hoax (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on 01:41 PM May 19th, 2004 EST (#3)
I first heard about the "rule of thumb" claim on a show that Oprah Winfrey did on domestic violence (against WOMEN only, of course) This was even AFTER the "rule of thumb" hoax had been de-bunked, but Oprah still used it as if it were a proven FACT.
The feminists just don't seem to get it.
The more they lie and the more those lies are exposed as lies the fewer people that are going to believe them when they make any kind of claims.
Heck we may not HAVE to defeat them, They seem to be defeating themselves, every time they open their big, stupid mouths.
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Re: Feminist Non-Fiction... (Score:1)
by Roy on 06:03 PM May 19th, 2004 EST (#4)
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FNF is quite obviously whatever SHE is feeling at any particular moment.

Or, what she feels she was feeling a while ago, or a few weeks ago, or during her turbulent adolescence.

Reference our current laws and legal procedures regarding sexual assault, marital rape, domestic violence, child abuse, and the now-quaint-gendered concept of "innocent until proven guilty," or more generally the pervasive criminalization of maleness in our court systems.

It's all based on feminist "non-fiction."

Otherwise known as LIES.


"It's a terrible thing ... living in fear." - Roy: hunted replicant, Blade Runner
Re:"Rule of Thumb for Wife-Beating" Hoax (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on 08:18 PM May 19th, 2004 EST (#5)
"The husband also (by the old law) might give his wife moderate correction.
For, as he is to answer for her misbehaviour, the law thought it reasonable to
intrust him with this power of restraining her, by domestic chastisement, in
the same moderation that a man is allowed to correct his servants or children;
for whom the master or parent is also liable in some cases to answer. But this
power of correction was confined within reasonable bounds; and the husband was
prohibited to use any violence to his wife, "[here translated:] other than as
licitly and reasonably pertains to the husband for the rule and correction of
his wife." The civil law gave the husband the same, or a larger, authority
over his wife; allowing him, for some misdemeanors, "[here translated:] with
flails and cudgels to beat the wife energetically;" for others, only "[here
translated:] to apply limited punishment." But, with us, in the politer reign
of Charles the second, this power of correction began to be doubted: and a
wife may now have security of the peace against her husband; or, in return, a
husband against his wife."

Blackstone's Commentaries
BOOK 1, CHAPTER 15
Of Husband And Wife
1765

LIBERTIES OF WOMEN

80. Every married woman shall be free from bodily correction or stripes by her husband, unless it be in his own defense upon her assault. If there be any just cause of correction, complaint shall be made to authority assembled in some court, from which only she shall receive it.

Massachusetts Body of Liberties
1641

What about spanking? (Score:1)
by thatold55 on 10:56 AM May 20th, 2004 EST (#6)
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A very good essay. Thanks for posting the link.

I had one small problem with one of the later paragraphs, though...


What makes this a particularly malicious slur against all men and masculinity is that its opposite has always been true. The male code has always included, "Never hit a women [sic]," and that is how men socialize men, and always have. Masculinity is explicitly about protection of women and children from this very kind of treatment, and men have always vigorously enforced it among themselves.


I agree that men, in general, have always enforced a code that prohibits men from hitting women and children. However, you cannot deny that fathers have a long tradition of spanking their children. I have no problem believing there have also been husbands who spanked their wives. I see a bit of a contradiction here, which is not unusual in the real world.

Perhaps a distinction lies in the motives of the man who is giving the "striping". If the husband/father is striking out in wild-eyed anger, then it is wife/child beating and abusive. If he is calm and reserved, then it is just a spanking, and he is merely providing correction for breaking established rules.

Bottom line is, I thought the quoted paragraph was a bit at odds with my own experience and my understanding of the history of our culture.

Re:What about spanking? (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on 01:16 PM May 20th, 2004 EST (#7)
Spank their wives? Only in the bedroom, as far as I know.

All I know is that my mother did most of the spanking in my family. My father only stepped in when we kids were extremely unruly and outnumbered our mother.
Re:What about spanking? (Score:1)
by crescentluna (evil_maiden @ yahoo.com) on 04:41 AM May 21st, 2004 EST (#8)
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somehow, I find violence used while being calm and rational a lot more disturbing than "heat of the moment."
Also, I think there is a difference between using physical force with a child, who is perhaps too young to understand that just because you are cranky is no reason to hit your brother, and physical reinforcement is needed. But an adult, hopefully they would understand this concept simply through words.
hmm, different society, perhaps, though. in this day and age, one would rather have improper behavior by wife absolved by police/government, whereas perhaps then it was considered the husband's job? - this is me musing.
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