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Male-friendly Domestic Abuse Helpline Needs Financial Support
posted by Scott on 04:06 PM February 19th, 2004
Domestic Violence Jan Brown writes, "The Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men (DAHM) needs your help! Our call volume to the toll free 24/7 helpline has quadrupled in the over three years we have been in existence. Additionally, Verizon is working over the next year to include our toll free 24 hour number on the crisis line page of every phone book they make in the country! Please click Read More for the rest of this request for help.

For over three years we have worked out of a small home office responding to callers 24/7, developing trainings, mailing requested materials, and setting up annual educational conferences on male victimization etc. Now is the time to start expanding our services and capabilities! There is a building for sale nearby that has just the space we need to accommodate offices for our volunteer staff and a larger room to hold trainings, support groups and other meetings. There is also an efficiency apartment on the second floor. The building needs some updating and remodeling and friends of DAHM are willing to donate time and services to make this happen.

When we began our mission in October 2000 to give voice to male victims/targets of domestic abuse we had no idea what the need was. The first two years it was quite a struggle to keep the helpline running 24/7 with just two volunteers covering the line and funding limited to a few small private donations. Today we are still pretty much self supporting but we have an all volunteer staff made up of an Executive Director, a Volunteer Coordinator and seven trained volunteers who man the helpline as well as donated services from the American Message Center of Ohio, a 24/7answering service.

We have had over 3,000 calls to the helpline since that time and have discovered that there is an undeniable need for support, referrals, shelter and advocacy work for male victims/targets and their children. Please help us to expand DAHM so that we can continue to do this much needed work!

The approximately 20 x 40 log building (on a slab) we have in mind is sitting on 3.75 acres of land here in Harmony, Maine. The price has recently been reduced to $19,900 and we hear that the owner is willing to pay some of the closing costs. We are looking for a contributor or contributors to buy the building and donate it to DAHM. If one person donated 19,900 or 25 people donated 1,000 each or 250 people donated 100.00 each DAHM could have an office and expand their services for male victims of domestic abuse. Please consider making a tax deductible donation to help us make this dream happen!

To find out more about us visit our website: www.noexcuse4abuse.org or contact the Executive Director, Jan Brown at: 207-683-5758. Thanks!

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Just gave $100 (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on 05:13 PM February 19th, 2004 EST (#1)

Hey there.. I just sent a bit of dough.

Come on guys, see if we can't help out.
NCFM-LA will pay for an ad (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on 07:42 PM February 19th, 2004 EST (#2)
NCFM-LA will pay for a 13-week ad for DAHM on His Side with Glenn Sacks to announce their program and solicit donations. DAHM will write the ad and Glenn will read it. DAHM is a very credible program and they have even helped NCFM-LA in the past. I hope they raise enough to make this purchase.

Marc
Re:Just gave $100 (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on 08:04 AM February 20th, 2004 EST (#3)
O.K. I'll send a hundred, but do they have a p.o. box? I don't use paypal, since I got a spam virus sent to me that way.

Ray
Re:Just gave $100 (Score:1)
by DAHMDIR on 06:48 PM February 21st, 2004 EST (#6)
(User #1588 Info)
The snail mail address is:
Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men
P.O. Box 252
Harmony, ME 04942

Thank You!
Re:Just gave $100 (Score:1)
by DAHMDIR on 06:51 PM February 21st, 2004 EST (#7)
(User #1588 Info)
sorry didn't scroll down far enough to see this question had already been answered. Jan
Re:Just gave $100 (Score:1)
by DAHMDIR on 06:46 PM February 21st, 2004 EST (#5)
(User #1588 Info)
Thanks so much! Every bit is appreciated and helps us reach our goal! So far we have $1,430.00 and we still need $18,470.00. We plan on using the efficiency apartment for a shelter for men and children in need. We get calls every week from men who are trying to escape violent women and protect their children. Presently there is NO SAFE HAVEN for men escaping abusive girlfriends/wives anywhere in the New England area. Some have gone from New England to California just to get safe shelter. If we have a shelter there will be no need to send men out of New England for a safe haven! We can also house men from outside of New England.
Your support WILL make a difference! Sincerely, Jan Brown, www.noexcuse4abuse.org
Re:Just gave $100 (Score:2)
by mens_issues on 08:16 PM February 21st, 2004 EST (#8)
(User #267 Info)
Have you considered renting rather than buying (at least to start)?

It seems that it would be less of a hurdle to rent a place as an office to begin with, rather than buy a place outright. Also, once you have a "store front" address, you qualify for inclusion in the Combined Federal Campaign, which may make it easier to purchase a property.

This is just a thought - I don't know what the situation is with the property in question, or whether renting it or another place is an option.

Sincerely,

Steve Van Valkenburg

Founder of Men's Issues Online
- a voice for men's advocacy


I'll start a fundraising drive at my group (Score:2)
by mens_issues on 08:55 PM February 21st, 2004 EST (#9)
(User #267 Info)
I would like to offer to start a fundraising drive on Men's Issues Online for the shelter fund for the Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men. This will involve posting the above information periodically, complete with a status on where the fund stands. All I would need is a periodic update on the size of the fund.

Men's Issues Online can be reached at:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/MensIssuesOnline

Steve
Address (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on 10:23 AM February 20th, 2004 EST (#4)
Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men
P.O. Box 252
Harmony, ME 04942.

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