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Washington Post champions dating dishonesty
posted by Adam on Saturday October 18, @12:57PM
from the Will-they-see-the-light? dept.
Boys/Young Men Matt writes "... ahh, they pine for the good ol' days, don't they, when women and girls could flirt and lead men on and not be held responsible in any way for it. (Well, they still can.) But now should that noble and lofty paradigm be challenged in the least, they are crying bloody murder and once again blaming boys and men (in this case, boys in particular). I can tell them why the boys are not interested in dating-- the short version: why bother? It wastes the boys'/men's time and money for the most part and leads eventually to a lot of whining about commitment (which isn't really commitment when half of marriages end in divorce, these being largely intitiated by the female). What, do they think we're so stupid as to keep walking into this trap again and again? Maybe today's adolescent boys, after seeing what has happened to their fathers and uncles, are wisely saying no to the relationship/marriage trap. The boycott will continue until men get their rights back!"

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womanese (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on Saturday October 18, @02:38PM EST (#1)
commitment == taking for granted
Re:womanese (Score:2)
by Dan Lynch on Saturday October 18, @04:32PM EST (#2)
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I guess the good ol days were when men were under women's thumbs. Kind of funny.

Does it really matter if women are "aggressive", as far as I can remember some women were , some were not. If you like what you see go get it.

However, safe sex for a man means , sex with a condom, sex with 200 witnesses, sex with a video camera in case all of those witnesses are discredited by the DA, sex at her place (because if she's at your house having sex with her may entitle her to yor property, sex with an interpretor in case she says 'yes' but really means 'no', or says "It's 7:00 oclock and that means no, or says "I have homework to do" and that means no. Sex with a stop watch just in case she says "I have homwork to do" and the interprator is able to translate in enough time so that you won't go to prison for the better part of your life because of a handout assignment do in class tomorrow. What ever happened to the good ol days when you could only die from getting aids? Now it's a lifelong term of suffering, torture and servitude.
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Long but funny piece... hope you guys enjoyed it (Score:1)
by LSBeene on Saturday October 18, @07:23PM EST (#3)
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This piece struck me as a bit funny. Women seem to want it all. I mean, lets not just pick on women, lets pull it out of the shell. Men and women want it all. Women have been raised to want to have all the freedoms men have. These freedoms being based on a “utopian” ideal of what men supposedly had in the past. Which is funny, because the men I know who are my grandfather's age didn't have these freedoms that are taught by reconstructionist Feminazi "herstory" teachers. There were social constructs of proper behavior and obligations on those men. Those are forgotten, and the rest of "herstory" is taught to our children. The results are here and now. No one is teaching our children, male or female, about obligations. Our schools and colleges are teaching about "diversity", and "rights", and "choices". These, as we know, have been framed to SOUND good. But here are the results. Blaming this shadowy "patriarchy" is kind of funny.
      These words have these meanings to me:
          “Diversity” This is not just to include people of color or gender or such. Now, it has expanded to include whole swaths of fringe ideals and even totalitarian thoughts. The original “diversity had fine ideals. Let us exclude no one was the banner. Now, EVERYONE’s ideas are sacred, even if they are demonstrably harmfull, hatefull, or as intolerant as the “conservative” they preport to hate.
          “Rights” I want MY rights. You want yours. But, the word rights has lost all meaning. We seem to think that what we WANT is our ‘right’. We are teaching that a want is justifiable and a step away from a “right”. We don’t bother teaching the young that EVERY right comes with a RESPONSIBILITY.
          “Choices”. We all want them, but they come with consequences. And when the consequence bill comes due, we have taught our children that “someone” is to blame. Not EVER do we tell children to look inward and take responsibility.
          So you get what you have here:
The women of today are, like most men, often brought up in a single family home or have loads of friends who were. We have let the Feminazi Studies programs and Feminazi influenced media tell young women "you don't NEED a man" and that "marriage is optional". Now many women have around them the boys and men who grew up with mothers and sisters who were taught that. The girls want to hook up at whim and enjoy “no strings attached sex”. This SOUNDS good, until it gets old. The girls then want a man to “KNOW” that she is now ready for a relationship. He must guess or be a mindreader from what I read, because mixed signals don’t cover it. And of course, young women are taught that if they want out of the ralationship, well, that’s fine too. Which is anyone’s “right”, but the basic precepts of marriage are NOT being taught. And with the divorce law being what it is, a man is just a piece of paper away from disaster. Then the women in this article are blank eyed wondering :”why won’t men commit”. This next part is written tongue in cheek, but has value.
What every little girl should be taught:
1) Just because a man doesn’t want to marry YOU doesn’t mean HE’s got an issue. We are not “emotionally unable to connect”, have a “Peter Pan Syndrome”, or “unable to commit”. If you are emotionally unstable, have situational ethics, want rights as well as privledge and THEN find yourself alone: It is NOT someone ELSE’s fault.
2) Be emtionally attractive and a man will be attracted. If you are kind to me and my friends we will want to have you around. If you, however, tell us stories of how you “got back” at your Ex, show me and my friends how you go behind people’s backs to “revenge yourself” using self-justification, or how your “rights” are paramount to you while others are not: The result is you not being welcome. And guess what, that’s not our fault either.
3) Women seem to have a “hurt feelings memory bank”. This is filled with every slight, argument, or misstated word ever spoken to her. Proving you have one that is a dual back up with floppies… lol, its NOT endearing. Oh, and we have something similar: When you cheer on a friend who got a divorce because she was “feeling unloved” and you thought it was great that she got the kids, the house, and a good chunk of her Ex’s money, well, this is going into OUR memory bank. Come time for us to consider marriage, we will be thinking of these situations.
4) Being feminine is POWERFUL. Being graceful is electrifying. Being a woman who is nurturing and supportive is attractive. Being sexual but having a mystique in intensely erotic. Having a career and being able to be powerful at work while having the depth of character to be loving and tender at home is endearing and attractive. If any “women’s rights group” told you otherwise, look out for the person of the same gender who wants to share your bed or the bitter crone who wants everyone to be as miserable as her. Just look at who is happy and fulfilled in those groups. Hanging out with revenge minded anger mongers doesn’t interest most men.

Peace
        Steven

Guerilla Gender Warfare is just Hate Speech in polite text
Re:Long but funny piece... hope you guys enjoyed i (Score:0)
by Anonymous User on Wednesday October 22, @08:33AM EST (#6)
Excellent, Steven. This one is worth looking into publishing. Have you tried on this? Jen
There's an old poem (Score:2)
by The Gonzo Kid (NibcpeteO@SyahPoo.AcomM) on Sunday October 19, @04:10PM EST (#4)
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The last line of which goes, "It's just what we asked for, but not what we want!"

What can I say? Girls, for years, the pheminists, in your name and by your silence, have beaten the drum long and loudly. Don't put us on a pedestal! Give us our freedom! Marriage is a tool of Oppression! We don't need you men! Stop acting paternalistic! Stop treating us different! We've the right to be promiscuous! We've the right to be single! We don't want you!

Okay. You got it, babes. Will that be for here or to go?

Oh, they forgot to tell you there would be a price, that it wasn't free? These bitter old lesbians and misandrists failed to mention that, did they?

Gee, what a shame. And here we have all this prepared for you.

Well, good news! We've an alternative menu available! The first course is "Crow." We don't move to the next course until you've cleaned your plates.

We've done what you asked.

We took you off the pedestal and stopped regarding you as anything special.

Your freedom? First freedom is to walk out the door and not let it hit you in the ass on the way out. Mind you don't slam it too hard.

Damn right marriage is a tool of oppression! Oppression of us, and we don't mind it going straight to hell. Hence, we see no reason for it - I mean, why buy the cow when the milk is free?

What a relief you don't need us - I believe the term is "like a fish needs a bicycle?" You don't mind, of course, if we return the sentiment do you?

By all means the paternalism stops. From here on out it's every man - AND WOMAN - for themselves. Sharpen your teeth, it's a dog eat dog world.

Stop treating you different? But of course, PAL. You're one of the guys now! Except for that occasional fuck-buddy thing, but hey, it's not like you don't get in on that too, eh?

Praise Jesus and Pass the Trojans! Promiscuous women! Whoooooo-eeeeee! Gaw, I just died an' went to Heaven! And when ya gits tired of one, thar's another ready to go! And best of all, no ties! Yee-HAW!

Single! Why, SURE! Single women mean single men, and we get our cake and eat it too! What could be better? And best of all - GOODBYE ALIMONY!

You don't want us? But of course. We don't want you either.

All you could ever have hoped for and more, right ladies?


* Putting the SMACKDOWN on Feminazis since 1989! *
Re: An old poem... emptiness all round (Score:1)
by Roy on Sunday October 19, @05:59PM EST (#5)
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Yeah, Gonzo. You're right as to the utter devastation in gender relations that has been wrought by thirty years of feminist bile...

Still, please introduce me to even one jaded, abused, "disposable" man who doesn't still yearn for the now-lost ideal of a genuinely loving, trusting, committed partnership with the "woman of his dreams...'

True. Our dreams have turned into a vast social nightmare that afflicts both genders.

The misandrist legal system has virtually ensured another thirty years of conflict and carnage as men seek to simply reclaim mere equality under-the-law.

In the meantime, individual men and women are left to their own devices and desires... seeking salvation in a tenuous sexual civility and negotiated "demilitarized zone" in the middle of a culture gone mad over chromosomes that differ by less than 1%....

It's a good thing Mother Nature was no feminist!
Of course, she was an admitted Bitch...


"It's a terrible thing ... living in fear." - Roy: hunted replicant, Blade Runner
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