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I'm not at all sure I agree with your brief assessment of worklife in IT.
I've been working IT for five years now and have been working in technology
for 22 years. I won't say for a moment that it isn't stressful, but I think
women are looking for jobs to be re-designed to fit their preferences. I see
the linked article as little more than a veiled attempt at justification for
this by feminists. In my mind, it plays into the perceived wage gap that the
feminists have weighed-in so heavily on.
My assessment is that women find these jobs inconvenient to the notion that
there is balance in the worklife/homelife equation. I read an article in, I
think, Ladies Home Journal, where a bunch of female students responded to a
survey about how they see themselves in the working world. I was
particularly amused at the arrogance of some women who said they simply
wouldn't work for a company that didn't support telecommuting, provide
on-site child-care, and other accommodations. I got the impression that
these women were never let in on the fact that maybe they'd be working for
companies that couldn't compete, companies who would soon be gasping for
survival. Lucent Technologies supports all that, or most of it, and look
where they are.
Personally, I establish what balance I can by getting up and leaving the
office when I've decided I'd met my commitment. It has, I believe, cost me
movement into management. I'm doing well and doing something I like, but I
do not regard it as balanced. My life is heavily oriented toward bringing
home a solid paycheck, not for my wife's sake, but for myself and my
children. My wife works hard, too, maybe harder (physically) than I do.
In my mind, the balance, for parents at least, comes in equitable division
of labor. One party is responsible for obtaining resources (income) and one
party is responsible for managing house and child care. Which role a man
chooses is up to him and his partner, but I don't think for a minute that
re-engineering worklife is the right answer. Individuals (men and women)
need to put reasonable limits on their commitment to their jobs. They need
to do it themselves; they cannot expect employers to do it. Employers will,
after all, take all you offer and then some, regardless of your gender.
OBTW, as for IT, I find it one of the least stressful jobs I've had. Ever.
If it's inconvenient for a woman, maybe she needs to consider another
career. I cannot for a minute regard nursing as a career option for myself.
I imagine there are female nurses out there who cannot for a minute regard
engineering as a career option. Each gender is gonna have preferences. Let
them be.
Frank
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