Jay Z and Ray Rice Cases Show Our Savage Hypocrisy on Domestic Violence

A big thanks to the International Business Times for their courage to buck the long-worn trend of looking the other way on certain issues. They've demonstrated it again with this article, and let me say in all sincerity that I'd be saying the same thing even if my name wasn't on the "by" line. Excerpt:

'A story dated March 27 suggests the NFL authorities had the tape, and Goodell was aware of it. As criminal evidence, the NFL says it was not allowed to view the CCTV footage. Yet if Goodell knew a copy had been received by the NFL, he should have reported it then.

Goodell's dereliction of civic/moral duty, assuming the above is true, is its own matter. Morally vacant behaviour from corporate officers long pre-dates this story. Instead, keep in mind that Rice's fiancee Janay was also arrested for assault for the same incident, the difference being that Rice rendered her unconscious in his response to her assault; for if they were both arrested and charged with assault, and she was knocked out by Rice with a single blow, must she not have thrown the first punch?
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A study appearing in the May 2007 edition of the American Journal of Public Health reported that almost half of DV incidents in the US are co-mutual, with 70% of non-co-mutual assaults committed by women, not men. But you wouldn't know that listening to feminists, the US president, and US vice-president, who paint DV as largely, or exclusively, male-on-female.
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If the road to Hell is paved with good intentions, the on-ramp is paved with false assumptions. Have the Rices been served by the sudden attention, Ray's loss of work, their loss of privacy, etc? Not according to Janay. Who assumed Janay needed to be "saved" from her husband's multimillion-dollar income and the privacy in which they could learn better relationship skills?

Most should wonder how and why they are on the DV On-Ramp of False Assumptions. What got them there, and how to get off it? This on-ramp tends to leave both truth and justice in the rearview mirror, and with those, a lot of damaged lives. Enough's enough.'

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Possibly to conserve area or for editorial policy reasons, some of the citation links weren't included in the published article, so here they are:

1. NFL claims it never received tape: http://www.usatoday.com/story/sports/nfl/2014/09/10/ap-newsbreak-source-says-rice-video-sent-to-nfl/15407231

2. The 2007 study on DV: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/

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Great article, Matt. Thanks for writing this, and congrats on IBT publishing you!

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Appreciate the congrats. Really though, the kudos goes to IBT for having the courage to run such *outrageous* articles. :)

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Well done Matt

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Good on you Matt for getting this published. I feel the same way about the situation. Although I had always suspected she threw the first punch, I had never seen it reported until I read your article.

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That was great Matt...

Thanks for writing that.

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